An Anonymous question for the guys

MrsD · 07-29-2009, 04:43 AM

An anonymous person who we shall call Sally wants to know why guys don't like it when a when a woman asks do ya wanna f... Or they reference the them as a f... buddy, a piece of ass ect. No strings, no friendship, the only time they call or show up is when they want a piece of ass. So why are they offended by the statement do you wanna come over and F... Sally wants to know???

Mikercw · 07-29-2009, 04:50 AM

Wait... Huh? Guys get offended if they are called fuck buddies......
Makes no sense, MOST guys wouldnt mind at all to have a booty call girl...
If you dont want to be called "the booty call" dont put yourself into that situation to begin with...

PROBLEM SOLVED

CForce · 07-29-2009, 10:10 AM

It's crass.

While I'm certainly not against the idea of "no strings" (as long as both parties are clear), I need to feel some mental/emotional connection with someone to have sex with them. And if I have that level of respect for them, I'm not going to refer to them as a "fuck buddy". "Friend with Benefits", maybe... but more likely "friend".

If we're meeting for the first time and you want to take me home, get to know me for half an hour before suggesting we change venues. If we already know each other, while I admire the directness of calling me up and saying "wanna f**k?", that's like a business transaction. I'd much prefer "I want you. NOW."

Bikenut · 07-29-2009, 11:05 AM

pfft...like I would have ANY advice on this

I think it depends on the relationship. I'm thinking if the guy is offended by the term, just don't say it - period. But again I have trouble honoring others feelings

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Mikercw · 07-29-2009, 02:15 PM

^^ Hun you dont call them fuck buddies to begin with.... For you its " I got laid"

Bikenut · 07-29-2009, 02:38 PM

I'm not sure how 'he' would react to being referred to a a 'fuck buddy'...something tells me this would be a major no no. I'm not willing to piss the guy off by finding out though

I don't think he likes the work fuck either, but I think it's because he expects me to act like a lady

cityxslicker · 07-29-2009, 05:43 PM

If all you want is Hit it and quit it, then F buddies it is , or Buckle bunnies if it is going the other way. She needs to expand her caller network. I am sure there are some local willing boys to help her out... there is always CL

Capt No Gravy · 07-29-2009, 08:05 PM

shoot! whatever gets the job done.....the only catch though is it always seems to get complicated somehow! I dont think she should be afraid to use the ol "wanna f%$#" line infact I think its kinda cute, lol, sometimes I wish I could just get to the point too!

jjoker · 08-03-2009, 12:18 PM

Well, I think it's the word. There is much stigma with connections to other uses. Like:

Fuck you!
Fuck off!
WTF?
Fuckhead!
Fucktard!
Go Fuck yourself!
What the fuck is wrong with you, you fucking idiot!
Fucker!
And the like...

As you see there is a lot of power and emotion behind the word, want it or not. If all you're after is hitting it, be guy or gal - wrong choice of word, IMO. There is also a difference between a question and a command. I for one, don't do well with commands ;-)

Say - Sex. It describes it, leaves stigma of Fuck away. Speaking for my self, if I got a call/text from a girl whom I find attractive that says:

I am horny, how's sex in 15? My place. - I'd be there in 12.

And get creative....like Text: I need 6 inches of your expertiese, right down the middle of my body.

And hell, make the guy feel good.... after all, you want them to make you feel good in return, am I right, or am I right?

'an anonymous' friend of mine, used to have a code word.... Goat...why? Cause it got horns...horns...horny. A lil spy game, you see, and discression of course.
Ehm, he would text that to his lady friend, and back would come answer in minutes, or alternate date.

Now... who's horny?

Miss Annette · 08-03-2009, 01:23 PM

hmmmmmm.............

Washingtonblonde · 08-03-2009, 02:03 PM

this thread makes me lol.. I don't know many guys that would say no to a no-strings attached hook up. Honestly....

SiX · 08-03-2009, 07:59 PM

I have one of those actually. Just haven't seen him in a while.

sin808 · 08-03-2009, 09:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Washingtonblonde

this thread makes me lol.. I don't know many guys that would say no to a no-strings attached hook up. Honestly....

I would...

yes I know

07-29-2009, 04:43 AM	#1
MrsD Married and then some. I'm a Female Living in Crazytown Looking for Conversation Humor is Goofy Have a Unique fashion style Blog Entries: 5	An Anonymous question for the guys An anonymous person who we shall call Sally wants to know why guys don't like it when a when a woman asks do ya wanna f... Or they reference the them as a f... buddy, a piece of ass ect. No strings, no friendship, the only time they call or show up is when they want a piece of ass. So why are they offended by the statement do you wanna come over and F... Sally wants to know???

07-29-2009, 11:05 AM	#4
Bikenut Litte Mary Sunshine I'm a Girl Living in just this of side of hell	pfft...like I would have ANY advice on this I think it depends on the relationship. I'm thinking if the guy is offended by the term, just don't say it - period. But again I have trouble honoring others feelings,

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07-29-2009, 04:50 AM	#2
Mikercw I TELL IT LIKE IT IS!!!! I'm a Guy Living in Willy Wonka`s Chocolate Factory- Down The Hall From The Oompa Loompas Looking for Conversation Interested in Women Humor is Dry/Sarcastic Have a Trendy fashion style	Wait... Huh? Guys get offended if they are called fuck buddies...... Makes no sense, MOST guys wouldnt mind at all to have a booty call girl... If you dont want to be called "the booty call" dont put yourself into that situation to begin with... PROBLEM SOLVED

07-29-2009, 10:10 AM	#3
CForce The Force I'm a Guy Living in Seattle Looking for Conversation Interested in Women Humor is Dry/Sarcastic Have a Unique fashion style	It's crass. While I'm certainly not against the idea of "no strings" (as long as both parties are clear), I need to feel some mental/emotional connection with someone to have sex with them. And if I have that level of respect for them, I'm not going to refer to them as a "fuck buddy". "Friend with Benefits", maybe... but more likely "friend". If we're meeting for the first time and you want to take me home, get to know me for half an hour before suggesting we change venues. If we already know each other, while I admire the directness of calling me up and saying "wanna f**k?", that's like a business transaction. I'd much prefer "I want you. NOW."

07-29-2009, 02:15 PM	#5
Mikercw I TELL IT LIKE IT IS!!!! I'm a Guy Living in Willy Wonka`s Chocolate Factory- Down The Hall From The Oompa Loompas Looking for Conversation Interested in Women Humor is Dry/Sarcastic Have a Trendy fashion style	^^ Hun you dont call them fuck buddies to begin with.... For you its " I got laid"

07-29-2009, 02:38 PM	#6
Bikenut Litte Mary Sunshine I'm a Girl Living in just this of side of hell	I'm not sure how 'he' would react to being referred to a a 'fuck buddy'...something tells me this would be a major no no. I'm not willing to piss the guy off by finding out though I don't think he likes the work fuck either, but I think it's because he expects me to act like a lady

07-29-2009, 05:43 PM	#7
cityxslicker PNW Love Member I'm a Dude Living in Sequim - Yeah, Baby! Blog Entries: 3	If all you want is Hit it and quit it, then F buddies it is , or Buckle bunnies if it is going the other way. She needs to expand her caller network. I am sure there are some local willing boys to help her out... there is always CL

07-29-2009, 08:05 PM	#8
Capt No Gravy hopeless romantic I'm a Dude Living in Burien	shoot! whatever gets the job done.....the only catch though is it always seems to get complicated somehow! I dont think she should be afraid to use the ol "wanna f%$#" line infact I think its kinda cute, lol, sometimes I wish I could just get to the point too!

08-03-2009, 12:18 PM	#9
jjoker Random Fact Man I'm a Gentleman Living in Spokane	Well, I think it's the word. There is much stigma with connections to other uses. Like: Fuck you! Fuck off! WTF? Fuckhead! Fucktard! Go Fuck yourself! What the fuck is wrong with you, you fucking idiot! Fucker! And the like... As you see there is a lot of power and emotion behind the word, want it or not. If all you're after is hitting it, be guy or gal - wrong choice of word, IMO. There is also a difference between a question and a command. I for one, don't do well with commands ;-) Say - Sex. It describes it, leaves stigma of Fuck away. Speaking for my self, if I got a call/text from a girl whom I find attractive that says: I am horny, how's sex in 15? My place. - I'd be there in 12. And get creative....like Text: I need 6 inches of your expertiese, right down the middle of my body. And hell, make the guy feel good.... after all, you want them to make you feel good in return, am I right, or am I right? 'an anonymous' friend of mine, used to have a code word.... Goat...why? Cause it got horns...horns...horny. A lil spy game, you see, and discression of course. Ehm, he would text that to his lady friend, and back would come answer in minutes, or alternate date. Now... who's horny?

08-03-2009, 01:23 PM	#10
Miss Annette Sarah's little mermaid I'm a Lady Living in Lacey, WA	hmmmmmm.............

08-03-2009, 02:03 PM	#11
Washingtonblonde So Amazingly Happy I'm a Lady Living in Lacey, WA	this thread makes me lol.. I don't know many guys that would say no to a no-strings attached hook up. Honestly....

08-03-2009, 07:59 PM	#12
SiX Crazy B**** I'm a Girl Living in Moses Lake	I have one of those actually. Just haven't seen him in a while.