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Old 07-29-2009, 05:43 AM   #1
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An Anonymous question for the guys

An anonymous person who we shall call Sally wants to know why guys don't like it when a when a woman asks do ya wanna f... Or they reference the them as a f... buddy, a piece of ass ect. No strings, no friendship, the only time they call or show up is when they want a piece of ass. So why are they offended by the statement do you wanna come over and F... Sally wants to know???
 
Old 07-29-2009, 05:50 AM   #2
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Wait... Huh? Guys get offended if they are called fuck buddies......
Makes no sense, MOST guys wouldnt mind at all to have a booty call girl...
If you dont want to be called "the booty call" dont put yourself into that situation to begin with...


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Old 07-29-2009, 11:10 AM   #3
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It's crass.

While I'm certainly not against the idea of "no strings" (as long as both parties are clear), I need to feel some mental/emotional connection with someone to have sex with them. And if I have that level of respect for them, I'm not going to refer to them as a "fuck buddy". "Friend with Benefits", maybe... but more likely "friend".

If we're meeting for the first time and you want to take me home, get to know me for half an hour before suggesting we change venues. If we already know each other, while I admire the directness of calling me up and saying "wanna f**k?", that's like a business transaction. I'd much prefer "I want you. NOW."
 
Old 07-29-2009, 12:05 PM   #4
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pfft...like I would have ANY advice on this I think it depends on the relationship. I'm thinking if the guy is offended by the term, just don't say it - period. But again I have trouble honoring others feelings,
 
Old 07-29-2009, 03:15 PM   #5
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^^ Hun you dont call them fuck buddies to begin with.... For you its " I got laid"
 
Old 07-29-2009, 03:38 PM   #6
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I'm not sure how 'he' would react to being referred to a a 'fuck buddy'...something tells me this would be a major no no. I'm not willing to piss the guy off by finding out though I don't think he likes the work fuck either, but I think it's because he expects me to act like a lady
 
Old 07-29-2009, 06:43 PM   #7
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If all you want is Hit it and quit it, then F buddies it is , or Buckle bunnies if it is going the other way. She needs to expand her caller network. I am sure there are some local willing boys to help her out... there is always CL
 
Old 07-29-2009, 09:05 PM   #8
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shoot! whatever gets the job done.....the only catch though is it always seems to get complicated somehow! I dont think she should be afraid to use the ol "wanna f%$#" line infact I think its kinda cute, lol, sometimes I wish I could just get to the point too!
 
Old 08-03-2009, 01:18 PM   #9
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Well, I think it's the word. There is much stigma with connections to other uses. Like:

Fuck you!
Fuck off!
WTF?
Fuckhead!
Fucktard!
Go Fuck yourself!
What the fuck is wrong with you, you fucking idiot!
Fucker!
And the like...


As you see there is a lot of power and emotion behind the word, want it or not. If all you're after is hitting it, be guy or gal - wrong choice of word, IMO. There is also a difference between a question and a command. I for one, don't do well with commands ;-)

Say - Sex. It describes it, leaves stigma of Fuck away. Speaking for my self, if I got a call/text from a girl whom I find attractive that says:

I am horny, how's sex in 15? My place. - I'd be there in 12.



And get creative....like Text: I need 6 inches of your expertiese, right down the middle of my body.

And hell, make the guy feel good.... after all, you want them to make you feel good in return, am I right, or am I right?

'an anonymous' friend of mine, used to have a code word.... Goat...why? Cause it got horns...horns...horny. A lil spy game, you see, and discression of course.
Ehm, he would text that to his lady friend, and back would come answer in minutes, or alternate date.

Now... who's horny?
 
Old 08-03-2009, 02:23 PM   #10
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hmmmmmm.............
 
Old 08-03-2009, 03:03 PM   #11
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this thread makes me lol.. I don't know many guys that would say no to a no-strings attached hook up. Honestly....
 
Old 08-03-2009, 08:59 PM   #12
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I have one of those actually. Just haven't seen him in a while.
 
Old 08-03-2009, 10:19 PM   #13
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Washingtonblonde View Post
this thread makes me lol.. I don't know many guys that would say no to a no-strings attached hook up. Honestly....
I would...


yes I know
 
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