Bikenut

You seem to like lingerie, but yet you just rip it off, what gives? I'm not spending $60 at VS for it to be shredded and left on the floor. If your buying the shit, no problem, I'll let ya tear those $35 panties right off and you can take it home; but when you say you like it, I buy it, and then you ruin it, well, you selfish bastard. There are others to consider ya know

Capt No Gravy

really? ....I just ordered a brand spankin new set!

Bikenut

for yourself? or others?

Mikercw

Well its hot as hell when your wearing it giving us a BJ.... but after sucking for awhile.... Its time for those to come off and for other things to happen... its how it works!

Or just do all of it naked... less hassle for us!

Capt No Gravy

well.....im not wearing it thats for sure! unless........

sin808

Not a fan really...too expensive, never gets worn (or only for a little bit), can't be washed in the washer usually, etc. Most of it isn't sexy and besides I'd rather see you naked anyway. A good pair of matching, nice underthings (that fit and flatter) work better for me.


But I'm also not picky, you like it? wear it, I won't complain..cuz seriously, that'd just be counterproductive.

MrsD

Have you ever noticed they want you to keep the shoes on..I'm just sayin from one munchkin to another, forget the lingerie invest in the stilettos

Mikercw

HAHAHA.... I prefer the shoes off thank you.... it digs into the thighs if I have to turn her onto reverse cowgirl. The clothes are going to come off no matter what... why not just spend $15 on a bottle of wine to make them come off faster

Vigilante

My thought is that lingerie lets a woman be femanine... and that's something that we fellas enjoy and flips our switch- at least most of us. Most men are pretty visual (hence playboy etc.)

Is is required to be ripped off? I think slow and easy is hawt and full of anticipation... and it doesn't ruin your expensive gittyup!

The only thing I've ripped off were an ol' pair of daisy duke denim shorts once... but they deserved it. I think my redneck gf at the time knew what was going to happen when she decided to wear them, so it wasn't my fault.

Mikercw

Bikenut

that's usually my MO

cityxslicker

It is the wrapping on a present. VC is just getting started, try some La Perla for the win , and heels on, sure what the hell.

Mikercw

Oh I know.....




Wait....

Not like that....


Shit....

Bikenut

It didn't work cuz I couldn't get you to drink the cheap booze

Whitefire

Mikercw

Oh i`ll drink cheap booze.... I have no problem with that

I <3 U

Plummy

will you marry me?

sin808

Only if you promise you don't want any kids

Mikercw

I see a marriage in process!!! Awww love at first sight!

Plummy

negotiable.

MrsD

Our first Loveboat wedding how exciting (Dorian stop doing that or were going to fall off the boat)

sin808

snipped...

SiX

Hi.. How you doin?

Mikercw

Haha!!

Vigilante

smooth move SiXer... way to sneak that foot in the door!



lol

Avboden

it looks best on the floor next to my bed

sin808

Plummy

shit, that's even better.

sin808

ladies and gentlemen, I think I've found my next ex-wife!

SiX

What? you're actually looking to get married? screw that... tried it once, didn't like it. Ruins everything.

sin808

*shrugs* she asked...I'm easy what can I say.

Plummy

all i ask is to have someone to curl up with at night.

cityxslicker

Tis the season for lingerie, Christmas only comes second to Valentinesday in that reguard.


PS the Snuggie is NOT considered lingerie.

Mikercw

PS.... the Snuggies are hot as hell.... if thats the only thing shes wearing!

MrsD

^^^No there not they look like you belong to a cult waiting for the next ship to a comet. Besides half the game is mental how do you feel sexy in a snuggie?
Naked underneath or not I'm pretty sure Duane wouldn't think a snuggie was the ultimate Santa surprise. It might however get me committed.. hmm little white pills and sleep. I'll take the Leopard print one please.

cityxslicker

I suppose you could just wear a robe backwards


Tho an apron with the right set of stockings, heels, LePerla set, ... and Merry Christmas Now I just gotta find a girl that looks good in that AND willing to parade around the kitchen in it ....

MrsD

^^^ That just reminded me of the bet I lost to Duane one time and any way that was the pay back. Heels, apron, stockings anyway I ended up burning my boob I'm just talented like that.

Mikercw

Does not surprise me one bit

MrsD

^^^somehow I didn't think it would.

Mikercw

Well thats what you get when the boobies tries to get some air....

MrsD

it hurt like hell but we still laughed our ass off.

Mikercw

Sure puts a new spin on....

"Hey, look at my tit"

cityxslicker

Santa was good to me after all, gotta bless that old fat gnome.

raichean

I love lingerie but yeah, it is confusing when it is expensive and tends to come off pretty rapidly depending on the situation.

So.. trying to catagorize:

1. Its like wrapping on the best present ever.. adds to the anticipation, gives a sense of fun and mystery and excitement etc etc. Depends on the person, the moment, and what kind.. some just seem silly or rediculous (to me) while other stuff looks amazing and is a screaming turn on (to me) so yeah.. pretty personal. Plus I think the biggest "sexy" thing for me is a woman who FEELs sexy and is giving that vibe.. often flouncing about in lingerie or something sexy, then the woman is turned on too and it is a great thing! The right woman in teh right moment could make a plastic yard bag look good though.. 8)

2. If worn at other times.. that out to dinner or otherwise normal situation and that special someone shows a hint of "hey honey.. check this.." and shows off a lacy strap or hint of a sexy thong or something and the ordinary just turned HOT! It is that idea of your sexy lady is secretly all sexy under those jeans or whatever and wants to get you hot and bothered all day or until you can get her home or whatever. So for me, if the lady doesnt wear something super sexy all the time, and she show's off for a moment that sexy thong or matching bra and panty set, or something super sexy and you need to make it through dinner, or the outing or whatever.. just gets anticipation going! 8)

For me.. if it is shredded being taken off, then good god.. maybe slow down a little?! LOL

MrsD

^^Damn that was a great answer. You are right sir if we feel sexy and good about ourself... watch out the lingerie, sexy undies, whatever are coming off and sparks will fly.

raichean

*bow* thanks.. *Smile* being a geek I have given these things a lot of thought..

"sexy" is really a state of mind.. I have seen absolutely drop dead GORGEOUS women be entirely unappealing because of their attitude or who they are, or "average" girls make ever head in the room turn (guys AND gals) because of that sparkle in their eyes or that feeling they are showing.

So for me lingerie is the same thing.. it is (hopefully) an obvious sign that the woman is feeling sexy and is all turned on too.. so kind of a big flashing green light of GO BOY GO!! *laugh*

So just me..

I love lingerie. 8) Blatent and open, met at the front door when coming home from work, or that surprise tease of something sexy/lacy/fun under the normal every day things.. 8)

MrsD

My hubby loves that too!

raichean

you should smack him if he didn't.. 8)

Blu

And you aren't married and r single why ???

raichean

*laugh*

The usual reasons.. the wrong person. 8) My ex isnt a BAD person.. just the WRONG person and it took us three years to figure that out but we both acknowledge that now openly. *sigh*

So.. here I am (again), workin puh nub in all the wong paces.. workin puh nub.. (reference anyone?!) hehehe


That is how I feel though.. without saying TOO much, I am a very physical person, and like most geeks, put a lot of thought into the physical side of relationships. 8)

CForce

Ahh, Eddie Murphy ;)

Bikenut

What an excellent post. I try to stay pretty logical after breakups aka...staying civil to each other, talking about it, looking back and appreciating the time together. There have been two where that has not been an option (cheating on me makes you an immediate douchbag). I like the maturity of your post. I kind of ponder when someone says their ex is a bitch or an asshole..really? You were with them for years...what does this say about you?

Bikenut

I love your hair..sorry, random post

raichean

Thanks.. I try to be mostly rational. This particular situation is perhaps the most rational I have been in during a breakup. We both tend to be pretty practical people so now that the emotional BS is done, we can deal with each other mostly well.

Granted.. two weeks ago she accused me of stealing the garage remote.. STEALING the house garage remote.. uhm... what?

But thankfully those moments are relatively rare.

Blu

Its only when you have kids with the ex that you have the right in my opinion to call them what ever you want, or actually any ex just depending ;)....cause my ex is a complete ASSHOLE!!!!!!!!!!!!! And I am sure you would agree aunt D

O and thanks I love it too!!

Bikenut

Rationality...shame on you. Society demands drama

MrsD

Don't get her started on your Ex ... we will have to chain her to her house again and lock up anything that could potentially be used to beat him with.

Blu

OK noted!!!

Qtip

I know people who know people who are related to people that date people that can make him "disappear"

Blu

I will keep that in mind lol