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Old 07-28-2009, 03:53 PM   #1
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MEN - Explain lingerie for me

You seem to like lingerie, but yet you just rip it off, what gives? I'm not spending $60 at VS for it to be shredded and left on the floor. If your buying the shit, no problem, I'll let ya tear those $35 panties right off and you can take it home; but when you say you like it, I buy it, and then you ruin it, well, you selfish bastard. There are others to consider ya know
 
Old 07-28-2009, 05:31 PM   #2
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really? ....I just ordered a brand spankin new set!
 
Old 07-28-2009, 05:45 PM   #3
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for yourself? or others?
 
Old 07-28-2009, 06:46 PM   #4
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Well its hot as hell when your wearing it giving us a BJ.... but after sucking for awhile.... Its time for those to come off and for other things to happen... its how it works!

Or just do all of it naked... less hassle for us!
 
Old 07-28-2009, 10:01 PM   #5
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well.....im not wearing it thats for sure! unless........
 
Old 07-28-2009, 10:43 PM   #6
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Not a fan really...too expensive, never gets worn (or only for a little bit), can't be washed in the washer usually, etc. Most of it isn't sexy and besides I'd rather see you naked anyway. A good pair of matching, nice underthings (that fit and flatter) work better for me.


But I'm also not picky, you like it? wear it, I won't complain..cuz seriously, that'd just be counterproductive.
 
Old 07-29-2009, 04:31 AM   #7
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You seem to like lingerie, but yet you just rip it off, what gives? I'm not spending $60 at VS for it to be shredded and left on the floor. If your buying the shit, no problem, I'll let ya tear those $35 panties right off and you can take it home; but when you say you like it, I buy it, and then you ruin it, well, you selfish bastard. There are others to consider ya know
Have you ever noticed they want you to keep the shoes on..I'm just sayin from one munchkin to another, forget the lingerie invest in the stilettos
 
Old 07-29-2009, 04:52 AM   #8
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Have you ever noticed they want you to keep the shoes on..I'm just sayin from one munchkin to another, forget the lingerie invest in the stilettos
HAHAHA.... I prefer the shoes off thank you.... it digs into the thighs if I have to turn her onto reverse cowgirl. The clothes are going to come off no matter what... why not just spend $15 on a bottle of wine to make them come off faster
 
Old 07-29-2009, 01:35 PM   #9
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My thought is that lingerie lets a woman be femanine... and that's something that we fellas enjoy and flips our switch- at least most of us. Most men are pretty visual (hence playboy etc.)

Is is required to be ripped off? I think slow and easy is hawt and full of anticipation... and it doesn't ruin your expensive gittyup!

The only thing I've ripped off were an ol' pair of daisy duke denim shorts once... but they deserved it. I think my redneck gf at the time knew what was going to happen when she decided to wear them, so it wasn't my fault.
 
Old 07-29-2009, 02:12 PM   #10
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The only thing I've ripped off were an ol' pair of daisy duke denim shorts once... but they deserved it. I think my redneck gf at the time knew what was going to happen when she decided to wear them, so it wasn't my fault.
 
Old 07-29-2009, 02:25 PM   #11
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why not just spend $15 on a bottle of wine to make them come off faster

that's usually my MO
 
Old 07-29-2009, 05:47 PM   #12
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It is the wrapping on a present. VC is just getting started, try some La Perla for the win , and heels on, sure what the hell.
 
Old 07-29-2009, 11:36 PM   #13
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that's usually my MO
Oh I know.....




Wait....

Not like that....


Shit....
 
Old 07-30-2009, 08:01 AM   #14
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that's usually my MO
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Oh I know.....




Wait....

Not like that....


Shit....
It didn't work cuz I couldn't get you to drink the cheap booze
 
Old 07-30-2009, 09:22 AM   #15
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Or just do all of it naked... less hassle for us!



 
Old 07-30-2009, 01:10 PM   #16
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It didn't work cuz I couldn't get you to drink the cheap booze
Oh i`ll drink cheap booze.... I have no problem with that

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Old 07-30-2009, 04:59 PM   #17
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Not a fan really...too expensive, never gets worn (or only for a little bit), can't be washed in the washer usually, etc. Most of it isn't sexy and besides I'd rather see you naked anyway. A good pair of matching, nice underthings (that fit and flatter) work better for me.


But I'm also not picky, you like it? wear it, I won't complain..cuz seriously, that'd just be counterproductive.
will you marry me?
 
Old 07-30-2009, 07:16 PM   #18
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will you marry me?
Only if you promise you don't want any kids
 
Old 07-30-2009, 07:48 PM   #19
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will you marry me?
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Only if you promise you don't want any kids
I see a marriage in process!!! Awww love at first sight!
 
Old 07-30-2009, 08:00 PM   #20
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Only if you promise you don't want any kids
negotiable.
 
Old 07-31-2009, 05:57 AM   #21
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will you marry me?
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Only if you promise you don't want any kids
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I see a marriage in process!!! Awww love at first sight!
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negotiable.
Our first Loveboat wedding how exciting (Dorian stop doing that or were going to fall off the boat)
 
Old 07-31-2009, 10:59 PM   #22
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negotiable.
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Old 08-01-2009, 08:58 AM   #23
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snipped...
Hi.. How you doin?
 
Old 08-01-2009, 10:56 AM   #24
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Haha!!
 
Old 08-01-2009, 03:04 PM   #25
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smooth move SiXer... way to sneak that foot in the door!



lol
 
Old 08-01-2009, 09:12 PM   #26
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it looks best on the floor next to my bed
 
Old 08-02-2009, 03:14 PM   #27
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Old 08-02-2009, 09:07 PM   #28
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snipped...
shit, that's even better.
 
Old 08-02-2009, 10:03 PM   #29
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ladies and gentlemen, I think I've found my next ex-wife!
 
Old 08-03-2009, 11:55 AM   #30
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What? you're actually looking to get married? screw that... tried it once, didn't like it. Ruins everything.
 
Old 08-03-2009, 01:42 PM   #31
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*shrugs* she asked...I'm easy what can I say.
 
Old 08-03-2009, 06:20 PM   #32
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all i ask is to have someone to curl up with at night.
 
Old 12-23-2009, 10:24 PM   #33
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Tis the season for lingerie, Christmas only comes second to Valentinesday in that reguard.


PS the Snuggie is NOT considered lingerie.
 
Old 12-23-2009, 11:39 PM   #34
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PS.... the Snuggies are hot as hell.... if thats the only thing shes wearing!
 
Old 12-24-2009, 05:16 AM   #35
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^^^No there not they look like you belong to a cult waiting for the next ship to a comet. Besides half the game is mental how do you feel sexy in a snuggie?
Naked underneath or not I'm pretty sure Duane wouldn't think a snuggie was the ultimate Santa surprise. It might however get me committed.. hmm little white pills and sleep. I'll take the Leopard print one please.

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Old 12-24-2009, 09:37 AM   #36
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I suppose you could just wear a robe backwards


Tho an apron with the right set of stockings, heels, LePerla set, ... and Merry Christmas Now I just gotta find a girl that looks good in that AND willing to parade around the kitchen in it ....
 
Old 12-24-2009, 11:04 AM   #37
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^^^ That just reminded me of the bet I lost to Duane one time and any way that was the pay back. Heels, apron, stockings anyway I ended up burning my boob I'm just talented like that.
 
Old 12-24-2009, 05:10 PM   #38
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anyway I ended up burning my boob:
Does not surprise me one bit
 
Old 12-25-2009, 03:41 AM   #39
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^^^somehow I didn't think it would.
 
Old 12-25-2009, 03:47 AM   #40
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Well thats what you get when the boobies tries to get some air....
 
Old 12-25-2009, 03:55 AM   #41
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it hurt like hell but we still laughed our ass off.
 
Old 12-25-2009, 03:56 AM   #42
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Sure puts a new spin on....

"Hey, look at my tit"
 
Old 12-29-2009, 09:22 PM   #43
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Santa was good to me after all, gotta bless that old fat gnome.
 
Old 09-15-2010, 02:50 PM   #44
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You seem to like lingerie, but yet you just rip it off, what gives? I'm not spending $60 at VS for it to be shredded and left on the floor. If your buying the shit, no problem, I'll let ya tear those $35 panties right off and you can take it home; but when you say you like it, I buy it, and then you ruin it, well, you selfish bastard. There are others to consider ya know
I love lingerie but yeah, it is confusing when it is expensive and tends to come off pretty rapidly depending on the situation.

So.. trying to catagorize:

1. Its like wrapping on the best present ever.. adds to the anticipation, gives a sense of fun and mystery and excitement etc etc. Depends on the person, the moment, and what kind.. some just seem silly or rediculous (to me) while other stuff looks amazing and is a screaming turn on (to me) so yeah.. pretty personal. Plus I think the biggest "sexy" thing for me is a woman who FEELs sexy and is giving that vibe.. often flouncing about in lingerie or something sexy, then the woman is turned on too and it is a great thing! The right woman in teh right moment could make a plastic yard bag look good though.. 8)

2. If worn at other times.. that out to dinner or otherwise normal situation and that special someone shows a hint of "hey honey.. check this.." and shows off a lacy strap or hint of a sexy thong or something and the ordinary just turned HOT! It is that idea of your sexy lady is secretly all sexy under those jeans or whatever and wants to get you hot and bothered all day or until you can get her home or whatever. So for me, if the lady doesnt wear something super sexy all the time, and she show's off for a moment that sexy thong or matching bra and panty set, or something super sexy and you need to make it through dinner, or the outing or whatever.. just gets anticipation going! 8)

For me.. if it is shredded being taken off, then good god.. maybe slow down a little?! LOL
 
Old 09-15-2010, 06:03 PM   #45
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^^Damn that was a great answer. You are right sir if we feel sexy and good about ourself... watch out the lingerie, sexy undies, whatever are coming off and sparks will fly.
 
Old 09-16-2010, 07:48 AM   #46
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^^Damn that was a great answer. You are right sir if we feel sexy and good about ourself... watch out the lingerie, sexy undies, whatever are coming off and sparks will fly.
*bow* thanks.. *Smile* being a geek I have given these things a lot of thought..

"sexy" is really a state of mind.. I have seen absolutely drop dead GORGEOUS women be entirely unappealing because of their attitude or who they are, or "average" girls make ever head in the room turn (guys AND gals) because of that sparkle in their eyes or that feeling they are showing.

So for me lingerie is the same thing.. it is (hopefully) an obvious sign that the woman is feeling sexy and is all turned on too.. so kind of a big flashing green light of GO BOY GO!! *laugh*

So just me..

I love lingerie. 8) Blatent and open, met at the front door when coming home from work, or that surprise tease of something sexy/lacy/fun under the normal every day things.. 8)
 
Old 09-16-2010, 09:45 AM   #47
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*bow* thanks.. *Smile* being a geek I have given these things a lot of thought..

"sexy" is really a state of mind.. I have seen absolutely drop dead GORGEOUS women be entirely unappealing because of their attitude or who they are, or "average" girls make ever head in the room turn (guys AND gals) because of that sparkle in their eyes or that feeling they are showing.

So for me lingerie is the same thing.. it is (hopefully) an obvious sign that the woman is feeling sexy and is all turned on too.. so kind of a big flashing green light of GO BOY GO!! *laugh*

So just me..

I love lingerie. 8) Blatent and open, met at the front door when coming home from work, or that surprise tease of something sexy/lacy/fun under the normal every day things.. 8)
My hubby loves that too!
 
Old 09-16-2010, 11:55 AM   #48
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My hubby loves that too!
you should smack him if he didn't.. 8)
 
Old 09-16-2010, 08:43 PM   #49
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And you aren't married and r single why ???
*laugh*

The usual reasons.. the wrong person. 8) My ex isnt a BAD person.. just the WRONG person and it took us three years to figure that out but we both acknowledge that now openly. *sigh*

So.. here I am (again), workin puh nub in all the wong paces.. workin puh nub.. (reference anyone?!) hehehe


That is how I feel though.. without saying TOO much, I am a very physical person, and like most geeks, put a lot of thought into the physical side of relationships. 8)
 
Old 09-17-2010, 03:01 PM   #50
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Old 09-17-2010, 06:26 PM   #51
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*laugh*

The usual reasons.. the wrong person. 8) My ex isnt a BAD person.. just the WRONG person and it took us three years to figure that out but we both acknowledge that now openly. *sigh*

So.. here I am (again), workin puh nub in all the wong paces.. workin puh nub.. (reference anyone?!) hehehe


That is how I feel though.. without saying TOO much, I am a very physical person, and like most geeks, put a lot of thought into the physical side of relationships. 8)
What an excellent post. I try to stay pretty logical after breakups aka...staying civil to each other, talking about it, looking back and appreciating the time together. There have been two where that has not been an option (cheating on me makes you an immediate douchbag). I like the maturity of your post. I kind of ponder when someone says their ex is a bitch or an asshole..really? You were with them for years...what does this say about you?

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Old 09-17-2010, 06:29 PM   #52
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And you aren't married and r single why ???
I love your hair..sorry, random post
 
Old 09-17-2010, 08:18 PM   #53
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What an excellent post. I try to stay pretty logical after breakups aka...staying civil to each other, talking about it, looking back and appreciating the time together. There have been two where that has not been an option (cheating on me makes you an immediate douchbag). I like the maturity of your post. I kind of ponder when someone says their ex is a bitch or an asshole..really? You were with them for years...what does this say about you?
Thanks.. I try to be mostly rational. This particular situation is perhaps the most rational I have been in during a breakup. We both tend to be pretty practical people so now that the emotional BS is done, we can deal with each other mostly well.

Granted.. two weeks ago she accused me of stealing the garage remote.. STEALING the house garage remote.. uhm... what?

But thankfully those moments are relatively rare.
 
Old 09-18-2010, 08:02 PM   #54
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Thanks.. I try to be mostly rational. This particular situation is perhaps the most rational I have been in during a breakup. We both tend to be pretty practical people so now that the emotional BS is done, we can deal with each other mostly well.

Granted.. two weeks ago she accused me of stealing the garage remote.. STEALING the house garage remote.. uhm... what?

But thankfully those moments are relatively rare.
Rationality...shame on you. Society demands drama
 
Old 09-19-2010, 06:13 AM   #55
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Its only when you have kids with the ex that you have the right in my opinion to call them what ever you want, or actually any ex just depending ;)....cause my ex is a complete ASSHOLE!!!!!!!!!!!!! And I am sure you would agree aunt D
O and thanks I love it too!!
Don't get her started on your Ex ... we will have to chain her to her house again and lock up anything that could potentially be used to beat him with.
 
Old 09-20-2010, 05:36 AM   #56
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Its only when you have kids with the ex that you have the right in my opinion to call them what ever you want, or actually any ex just depending ;)....cause my ex is a complete ASSHOLE!!!!!!!!!!!!! And I am sure you would agree aunt D

O and thanks I love it too!!
I know people who know people who are related to people that date people that can make him "disappear"
 
Old 09-20-2010, 01:32 PM   #57
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As far as the question goes, I hate lingerie. Every girl I've ever dated usually gets pissed at me cause I take out my trauma sheers and cut that crap off them. Quit hiding the goodies, want to turn me on? Play some mind games instead, teasing my brain does more for me than some clothing that is itchy against my skin. Handcuff me to the bed and strip infront of me, knowing I can't touch you will drive me insane.
 
Old 09-20-2010, 08:15 PM   #58
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I know people who know people who are related to people that date people that can make him "disappear"
happy to add a few names to that list.. assuming you are making one.
 
Old 09-20-2010, 11:01 PM   #59
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There is nothing better than a sexy girl in skimpy expensive lingerie.
 
Old 10-27-2010, 09:14 PM   #60
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Underwear explained

Might explain why she's out here in her underwearThigh High boots Knee High Boots
 
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