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Old 01-07-2009, 05:38 PM   #1
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Bad kissers

So, I've been told I'm an amazing kisser by every girl i've ever made out with (cue jokes about what, your mom? Or what, 1 girl?)

So, latest gal (we decided not to continue our relationship, other issues) was a horrible kisser, I mean bad. Of course I didn't tell her that. Took hours and she barely improved.


I won't lie it was a major turn-off. We start making out, i immediately think "wtf", that's not a good thing.


So what about you? Ever run across a horrible kisser? What did you do?
 
Old 01-07-2009, 05:49 PM   #2
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Why is she a "bad kisser"? Have you talked to her about why you don't like it? If she doesn't know what you like and don't like she can never improve. That's your fault not hers.
 
Old 01-07-2009, 05:50 PM   #3
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Um....have not kissed a guy that was horrible but I have kissed a guy and not really felt anything. That is why I have come to the conclusion that it really is in his kiss.....
 
Old 01-07-2009, 06:34 PM   #4
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Yup... kissed a girl who was terrible at it. Any potential for a relationship ended right there. We stayed friends though cuz she's a nice gal.

I really can't get into a girl who can't kiss. Just one of my things.
 
Old 01-07-2009, 07:43 PM   #5
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This isn't directed at anyone in particular, but has anyone thought maybe it's just a different kissing style? I mean, maybe that's how their last boyfriend or girlfriend taught them to kiss because that's how they liked it. If everyone kissed the same way, kissing would lose its meaning and its fun, essentially.

Or...maybe you're the bad kisser and you've been with a bunch of liars? lol
 
Old 01-07-2009, 08:10 PM   #6
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Well to answer people's questions.... she was just tame I guess. Closed mouth, didn't move, wouldn't try anything herself, I had to initiate everything.

And how would I go about telling her evan? Stop it all, and go "ur doin it wrong" bahaha, I should do that...
 
Old 01-07-2009, 08:18 PM   #7
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Quote:
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And how would I go about telling her evan? Stop it all, and go "ur doin it wrong" bahaha, I should do that...
But she's not doing it wrong. She's doing it in a way you don't like. So next time your making out step on the brakes and say "you know what I really like in a passionate kiss. . . . "

Same way you would suggest what you like in bed as well.
 
Old 01-07-2009, 09:33 PM   #8
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I agree I had a boyfriend in High school who had the sloppiest kisses EVER I felt like my face was being sucked right up into his mouth! We dated 6 onths I told him that he needs to watch the amount of spit in his mouth before we make out...we are friends to this day 18 yrs later and he still remembers me telling him this so his future with kissing girls is brighter.

Other note everyone kisses diffrently I conform my style to theres. Your lips and mouths have to learn eachother and taking your first kisses slow will help that. Maybe she had bad expereince with an ex who's tongue was over excited all the time and she fears that with you?

Also It is in his/her kiss!! For sure I have kissed guys that NOTHING one was like creapy!! But others my feet float BUT one guy just his kiss made me melt down below!! So it is in the KISS 4SURE!!
 
Old 01-07-2009, 09:37 PM   #9
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People do have different styles.. I know I've adapted to others.. and have others adapt to me.. Usually it's something that can happen without a conversation necessarily.
 
Old 01-10-2009, 09:43 PM   #10
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Everyone is different and likes different things when it comes to kissing etc. I think that when you are in a relationship you need to discover what turns the other person on.....I must say that the discovery part can be quite a bit of fun.
 
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