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Old 01-07-2009, 10:47 AM   #1
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Kissing and Making Out

is it really an intimate gesture anymore now a days? Or has it become like the hug between sexes that it gets passed around with out much intimacy behind it?

discuss.
 
Old 01-07-2009, 11:24 AM   #2
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From what I've seen lately it depends on how much alcohol is involved, which is pathetic.

For me it still means something, but that's just me.
 
Old 01-07-2009, 12:06 PM   #3
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from what i've seen lately it depends on how much alcohol is involved, which is pathetic.

For me it still means something, but that's just me.
lol
 
Old 01-07-2009, 12:27 PM   #4
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I give my friends a smooch.

But as far as making out, I still feel like it's imtimate.
 
Old 01-07-2009, 12:48 PM   #5
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I absolutely positively LOVE LOVE LOVE making out! At times it's very intimate.. and at times slightly less - but never NOT intimate.
 
Old 01-07-2009, 01:22 PM   #6
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kissing is never casual for me. it is sooo intimate and erotic. it triggers crazy buttons inside. i could just kiss and do nothing else for hours........with the right person!
 
Old 01-07-2009, 02:25 PM   #7
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I can't say I've never kissed someone and had it be less than intimate, but that IS the point of kissing and especially 'making out' IMHO.
 
Old 01-07-2009, 05:47 PM   #8
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A kiss is very intimate to me. I truly believe that the first kiss will tell you what you need to know about your connection with the other person involved in the kiss. I don't believe that being drunk is an excuse or gives a person the right to make-out with whoever they want etc and expect all to be forgiven.
 
Old 01-07-2009, 06:06 PM   #9
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Kissing is a good was to lead to foreplay and sex!
 
Old 01-08-2009, 02:17 AM   #10
Um hi?
 
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I love kissing....
Ill kiss friends faces, but actually kissing someone on the lips... Yeah Id like to believe it still means something. And making out is just amazing I love that feeling.
 
Old 01-08-2009, 02:24 AM   #11
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Sadly for most I dont think that it is a intimate gesture.... PDA has basically said that kissing/making is just there to do
 
Old 01-08-2009, 08:10 AM   #12
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I absolutely positively LOVE LOVE LOVE making out! At times it's very intimate.. and at times slightly less - but never NOT intimate.
you are so NOT allowed to post in this thread.
as far as kissing...is very intimate...imho
 
Old 01-08-2009, 08:16 AM   #13
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^^^^^lol
 
Old 01-08-2009, 09:35 AM   #14
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... leaving thread. :'-(
 
Old 01-08-2009, 10:44 AM   #15
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ahhhh.
you know your one of my most hearted
 
Old 01-08-2009, 11:02 AM   #16
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is it really an intimate gesture anymore now a days? Or has it become like the hug between sexes that it gets passed around with out much intimacy behind it?

discuss.
I guess I should ask for some clarification on what you are asking?

If you are asking if kissing or making out with someone, somehow means you are attached or involved in some deep emotional level, then no...it doesn't necessarily mean a whole lot, nor does it imply that either party owes the other something.

If you are just asking if kissing or making out is intimate, for me the answer is yes. I would not kiss someone on the lips without the intention of being intimate, expressing love, or pursuing sex.

Recently my wife and I had a conversation about the fact that I will not kiss my son on the lips. This thread has allowed me to figure out why that is - because I view kissing on the lips as sexual. I would not kiss my daughter, mother, or sister on the lips either. But that is just me.
 
Old 01-08-2009, 04:19 PM   #17
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Dane still sucks at it....


Sorry had to share
 
Old 01-08-2009, 04:23 PM   #18
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I've never made out with anyone I wasn't sincerely interested in, but I wouldn't rule it out if I was single
 
Old 01-08-2009, 04:40 PM   #19
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I've never made out with anyone I wasn't sincerely interested in, but I wouldn't rule it out if I was single
OH!!!!!! I see how you are...WE didnt count...
 
Old 01-08-2009, 05:10 PM   #20
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OH!!!!!! I see how you are...WE didnt count...
shhhh, you want people talking I must say....you were the only PNW'r that didn't whimper thru the whole thing
 
Old 01-08-2009, 05:34 PM   #21
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... leaving thread. :'-(
dont worry...you havent kissed ME yet so you're still IN!!!!!
 
Old 01-08-2009, 05:48 PM   #22
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^^^^That's too bad. She is a really good kisser!!!!
 
Old 01-08-2009, 06:52 PM   #23
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Kissing is a good was to lead to foreplay and sex!
True! but not always.
 
Old 01-10-2009, 05:59 PM   #24
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a kiss should be slow and sensuous. it should be like exploring something blind with only your lips and tongue. it should be teasing and wet. deep and light. soft and hard and playful all in the course of one kiss.
 
Old 01-10-2009, 06:54 PM   #25
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Vivid.. you and I need to hang out again one of these nights. I need to try one of those kisses..
 
Old 01-10-2009, 06:55 PM   #26
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*busts out the video camera*

so where y'all ummm .. hanging out at??
 
Old 01-10-2009, 07:10 PM   #27
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Vivid.. you and I need to hang out again one of these nights. I need to try one of those kisses..
A Spanish kiss is what you missed in Barcelona
 
Old 01-10-2009, 09:17 PM   #28
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A Spanish kiss is what you missed in Barcelona
I missed a lot in Barcelona.
 
Old 01-10-2009, 10:31 PM   #29
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a kiss should be slow and sensuous. it should be like exploring something blind with only your lips and tongue. it should be teasing and wet. deep and light. soft and hard and playful all in the course of one kiss.
I could really use one of those kisses right about now........
 
Old 01-10-2009, 11:00 PM   #30
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^^couldn't we all.
 
Old 01-10-2009, 11:19 PM   #31
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Yes. But I really need one of those kisses......bad!
 
Old 01-11-2009, 07:37 PM   #32
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Yeah.. me too. I'm at a beautiful destination.. in a hotel room.. alone.. and have been drinking wine.. and I'm about to hit up the hot tub/pool.. and coming back to my room.. ALONE.. And I'd love NOTHING MORE than to experience one of those kisses right now.
 
Old 01-11-2009, 11:10 PM   #33
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^^^^^Im sorry hunny. I know the feeling. But you know what I hate? Is that I personally cannot experience that kind of kiss with just anybody. It has to be somebody that I am really really into, both physically and emotionally. If it wasn't for that I would just head out to a bar and pick up some random guy....
 
Old 01-12-2009, 09:59 PM   #34
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^^^1. I'm in the same situation as last night but with more booze.

#2. Sweetie.. It can't just be any random guy.. Believe it or not I do require some type of connection or background...
 
Old 01-12-2009, 10:28 PM   #35
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^^^^I know it can't be just any guy for you. It's one of the things we have in common and one of the things I love about you. It's nice to be able to talk this out with someone who's first response is not to tell me to get over it and just go have sex with a stranger and I will feel better.....
 
Old 01-12-2009, 10:42 PM   #36
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^^^ If that was the case then I'd be getting laid tonight.. *sigh* I'm going to go shower and get ready for bed...
 
Old 01-12-2009, 11:22 PM   #37
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You and me both.....I wish I could just fly down tomorrow morning and surprise you. We could spend the night by the pool looking up at the stars, drinking some wine and swimming. hmmmmmm.....wish I was there with you.
 
Old 07-11-2009, 11:10 AM   #38
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If ya aint any good at it, it will kill a relationship. Kissin is that important
 
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