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Old 01-07-2009, 09:44 AM   #1
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Seperating physical from emotional

Can a man/woman really have sex w/o emotion?

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Old 01-07-2009, 10:27 AM   #2
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Your question inherently poses the "attraction" issue.

Sex isn't always about showing someone you care. Sometimes it's just about getting that feeling of release, and that's an individual emotion, not one you are required to share with someone on an intimate level.

To directly answer you:

- Can a man and woman have sex without "getting attached" to each other? Yes.
- Will some sort of emotion be involved, even if it's simply an individual emotion? Yes.


The precise emotion(s) involved are the key to answering your question.
 
Old 01-07-2009, 10:34 AM   #3
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Yes people can "just fuck" but more often than not they are not being honest with themselves and open with their partners and signals get mixed. Then emotions get involved.
 
Old 01-07-2009, 10:42 AM   #4
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Your question inherently poses the "attraction" issue.

Sex isn't always about showing someone you care. Sometimes it's just about getting that feeling of release, and that's an individual emotion, not one you are required to share with someone on an intimate level.

To directly answer you:

- Can a man and woman have sex without "getting attached" to each other? Yes.
- Will some sort of emotion be involved, even if it's simply an individual emotion? Yes.


The precise emotion(s) involved are the key to answering your question.



Abolustely correct!! You must be attracted to the person in some way. Unless youre a pornstar. LOL
 
Old 01-07-2009, 10:46 AM   #5
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Being attracted to someone is different than being emotionally attached to them. I have always had the ability to separate physical attraction and emotional attraction. Some people are just wired this way, most are not. The unfortunate side to this is that it is very rare that both people in a relationship are able to separate the two, so someone ends up getting hurt.
 
Old 01-07-2009, 11:05 AM   #6
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Being attracted to someone is different than being emotionally attached to them. I have always had the ability to separate physical attraction and emotional attraction. Some people are just wired this way, most are not. The unfortunate side to this is that it is very rare that both people in a relationship are able to separate the two, so someone ends up getting hurt.
Very true, lets just say I prefer to have a physical and emotional attraction.
However that said, yes it can be done.
I have done it and nobody got hurt.
 
Old 01-07-2009, 11:50 AM   #7
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Can a man/woman really have sex w/o emotion?

discuss.
I'm sure they do it all the time.
 
Old 01-07-2009, 11:55 AM   #8
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Being attracted to someone is different than being emotionally attached to them. I have always had the ability to separate physical attraction and emotional attraction. Some people are just wired this way, most are not. The unfortunate side to this is that it is very rare that both people in a relationship are able to separate the two, so someone ends up getting hurt.
that was so nicely said.
 
Old 01-07-2009, 04:58 PM   #9
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Yep. As a matter of fact I have a friend that has sex almost on a daily basis and almost each time with a different women. Before he has sex with them he has a speech that he gives them explaining that he is not in it for a relationship and he is just looking for a good time. They LOVE the fact that he is honest and he has no problems getting a female to jump into bed with him. If three days have gone by without him having sex I get to hear about how he needs a female. lol
 
Old 01-07-2009, 05:05 PM   #10
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Thats a big THANK YOU Miss A! for making the rest of the men (myself included) that havn't had sex so regularly. I'm not whining, just stating fact, Now I can ponder all the reasons why jerks all over the world "get the girl" while the nice guys finish last.
 
Old 01-07-2009, 05:13 PM   #11
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I'm sorry. But honestly? I have been jerked around a lot by "nice guys". Men are masters at head games. I HATE games. So....he is one of my favorite people. Why? Cause I always know where I stand with him. There is no hidden agenda. He doesn't raise me up just to let me down. So far he is the only honest guy I know. He does what he says and says what he means. I have never taken him up on his offer because I CAN"T seperate the emotion from the physical. It goes hand in hand with me.
 
Old 01-07-2009, 05:26 PM   #12
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Women are the masters, men just have one agenda, "Command and Control"
 
Old 01-07-2009, 09:36 PM   #13
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Thats a big THANK YOU Miss A! for making the rest of the men (myself included) that havn't had sex so regularly. I'm not whining, just stating fact, Now I can ponder all the reasons why jerks all over the world "get the girl" while the nice guys finish last.
Ohhh my dear the nice guy may finish last but he always has the pretty lady and gets to die finishing in her every night he can!! The jerk dies and old lonely man with the mean nursing staff caring for him!!
 
Old 01-10-2009, 10:37 PM   #14
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^^^^^LOL!!! Just for the record I don't think my friend is a jerk. He is just honest about the fact that he does not want to be in a relationship.
 
Old 01-11-2009, 06:23 PM   #15
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^^She wants him... hehe.. sorry.. WINE talking.
 
Old 01-11-2009, 09:07 PM   #16
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it's pretty easy, imo.

except the sex really sucks without any emotion. i'd rather eat a cupcake.
 
Old 01-11-2009, 09:26 PM   #17
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Sex without love is for virgins and animals
 
Old 01-11-2009, 10:05 PM   #18
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^^She wants him... hehe.. sorry.. WINE talking.
I want someone but he is not the guy I picture when I close my eyes at night. You fail.
 
Old 01-14-2009, 03:30 PM   #19
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Sex without love is for virgins and animals
I guess that leaves only one choice for me then doesn't it In tandem to my comment in the 'make out' thread, I again state, I've never 'made out' with someone I wasn't seriously attracted too.
On the other hand, I've fucked more than a few for the sole purpose of fucking. Yes Virginia, there IS a difference, at least in my book.

And kudos for Annette's guy friend for giving the speech BEFORE the act and not after. I've given that speech myself a few times back in the dark ages. Do it, leave, never call me again.
 
Old 07-11-2009, 09:38 AM   #20
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