Well F*ckered

cityxslicker · 12-23-2010, 08:59 AM

ok so I have been riding on a very happy cloud and enjoying myself quite well...... until she dropped the kid bomb.
I cant have them, I wont have them. She does not understand the logic to it, she wants to be a mother, it a part of who she sees herself as .....

So 1 get a donor
2 see if I can get the operation reversed
3 nab the seedlings in the sack
4 let this one go to be a mom for someone else's kids

Fuck

MrsD · 12-23-2010, 10:07 AM

The reversal still slim however you still have other options. Question is will you regret either choice. You let her go then shes someone you can live without. You have kids you say not your cup of tea. Personally I think you would make a great father. The kid however wouldn't have a chance. Because you would be one step ahead every step of the way. Consider the adventure. Then listen to your heart not your head.

cityxslicker · 12-23-2010, 10:28 AM

I hated being a kid. I always thought that if I had been asked to come here, I wouldnt have.
hated the lies, the violence, the inability to do anything, and having to be responsible way too fucking early, friggen codependent stupidy with manipulative tendancies. I promised myself I would never have kids, never get married. that I would end the cycle. kill it for good.

MrsD · 12-23-2010, 07:44 PM

Your theory was good for a young man full of hate and hurt. Now your older wiser and have compassion.People change, life changes, if its in your heart you will make it work.

cityxslicker · 12-23-2010, 11:49 PM

well my sister is enjoying the situation, so at least there is some ray of f'n sunshine to it all.

MrsD · 12-24-2010, 04:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cityxslicker

well my sister is enjoying the situation, so at least there is some ray of f'n sunshine to it all.

I'm sorry I have 2 brothers so I can see the humor.

Mikercw · 12-24-2010, 06:07 AM

sounds like too me that you just need to man up. Obviously you look at this girl as a trophy since how ya talk about her and post pics of her...
So is this "the one", no highly doubt it... since you need to give yourself "reasons" and options for the dame...
You always say "No...No...No kids"..... but for gods sakes choose!!!

cityxslicker · 12-24-2010, 09:47 AM

elective surgery, so much fun

So the initial was 300 to get it done when I was 18..... to get it reversed at 42; ..... 3900-7100 depending on the surgeon and if an over nite stay is needed for 'supervison'.....

Not trophy, I am just really stupid happy, Its been awhile since I was in that mood, so you will pardon my indulgence. Yes, I did have fun with Adeli, I never actually met Yana in person, though I think we could have had some great bedroom time; but Tati is more than a f8ck. If she wasnt, I would be in and out of that as fast as the other two. this one is trouble, and I knew it from the start; but it was a good trouble, so now I have other concerns.

Operation wont go until after the wedding; her parents could still not like me, they are apparently very traditional about the whole matter and dont approve of 'internet dating/brides/marriage' much less to a 'foreigner' So we shall see.

Man Up, that is funny, it should be the tag line for Viagra, Levitra or Ciaylis
You missed a calling as ad copy consultant.

cityxslicker · 12-27-2010, 07:48 AM

and now for a bit of paranoia, risk mitigation, due diligence.....

this intermission brought to you by
the brain
and not the dick

Vigilante · 12-27-2010, 05:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cityxslicker

I hated being a kid. I always thought that if I had been asked to come here, I wouldnt have.
hated the lies, the violence, the inability to do anything, and having to be responsible way too fucking early, friggen codependent stupidy with manipulative tendancies. I promised myself I would never have kids, never get married. that I would end the cycle. kill it for good.

You hated being a kid? Well now you know what you didn't like so now you know how to better raise your own if it happens. Here's your chance to turn it around man.

Bikenut · 12-27-2010, 10:36 PM

hold up there little doggie...now I may be spending WAAAAY too much time with my head in pyschology books and reading about human behaviorisms so I apogize if I am over stepping my boundry here BUT isn't this relationship fairly new? I know serisous discussions MUST be addressed at the onslaught of any serious relationship but isn't this a little too soon? A reversal? As a friend, and I mean that truely, I would rather you both give this some consideration after dating for a year..shit, even 8 months

I love ya big guy and just don't want to see ya plunge into something that involves an innocent child until you are both SURE you even want to spend the rest of your lives together..much less share custody of a kid.

CS, please, I'm not being a negative nancy. I think I somewhat know you and I KNOW what you are experiencing is new and lovely but a child is a lifelong commitment...one that shouldn't be taken lightly.

OK, now you can tell me to shut the fuck up

MrsD · 12-28-2010, 05:10 AM

^^the voice of realism and very valid points.

cityxslicker · 12-28-2010, 09:51 PM

oh no, I am not jumpin under the knife just because it is a thursday

yep, this train is indeed slowed down.

12-23-2010, 08:59 AM	#1
cityxslicker PNW Love Member I'm a Dude Living in Sequim - Yeah, Baby! Blog Entries: 3	*Well Fckered** ok so I have been riding on a very happy cloud and enjoying myself quite well...... until she dropped the kid bomb. I cant have them, I wont have them. She does not understand the logic to it, she wants to be a mother, it a part of who she sees herself as ..... So 1 get a donor 2 see if I can get the operation reversed 3 nab the seedlings in the sack 4 let this one go to be a mom for someone else's kids Fuck

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12-23-2010, 10:07 AM	#2
MrsD Married and then some. I'm a Female Living in Crazytown Looking for Conversation Humor is Goofy Have a Unique fashion style Blog Entries: 5	The reversal still slim however you still have other options. Question is will you regret either choice. You let her go then shes someone you can live without. You have kids you say not your cup of tea. Personally I think you would make a great father. The kid however wouldn't have a chance. Because you would be one step ahead every step of the way. Consider the adventure. Then listen to your heart not your head.

12-23-2010, 10:28 AM	#3
cityxslicker PNW Love Member I'm a Dude Living in Sequim - Yeah, Baby! Blog Entries: 3	I hated being a kid. I always thought that if I had been asked to come here, I wouldnt have. hated the lies, the violence, the inability to do anything, and having to be responsible way too fucking early, friggen codependent stupidy with manipulative tendancies. I promised myself I would never have kids, never get married. that I would end the cycle. kill it for good.

12-23-2010, 07:44 PM	#4
MrsD Married and then some. I'm a Female Living in Crazytown Looking for Conversation Humor is Goofy Have a Unique fashion style Blog Entries: 5	Your theory was good for a young man full of hate and hurt. Now your older wiser and have compassion.People change, life changes, if its in your heart you will make it work.

12-23-2010, 11:49 PM	#5
cityxslicker PNW Love Member I'm a Dude Living in Sequim - Yeah, Baby! Blog Entries: 3	well my sister is enjoying the situation, so at least there is some ray of f'n sunshine to it all.

12-24-2010, 06:07 AM	#7
Mikercw I TELL IT LIKE IT IS!!!! I'm a Guy Living in Willy Wonka`s Chocolate Factory- Down The Hall From The Oompa Loompas Looking for Conversation Interested in Women Humor is Dry/Sarcastic Have a Trendy fashion style	sounds like too me that you just need to man up. Obviously you look at this girl as a trophy since how ya talk about her and post pics of her... So is this "the one", no highly doubt it... since you need to give yourself "reasons" and options for the dame... You always say "No...No...No kids"..... but for gods sakes choose!!!

12-24-2010, 09:47 AM	#8
cityxslicker PNW Love Member I'm a Dude Living in Sequim - Yeah, Baby! Blog Entries: 3	elective surgery, so much fun So the initial was 300 to get it done when I was 18..... to get it reversed at 42; ..... 3900-7100 depending on the surgeon and if an over nite stay is needed for 'supervison'..... Not trophy, I am just really stupid happy, Its been awhile since I was in that mood, so you will pardon my indulgence. Yes, I did have fun with Adeli, I never actually met Yana in person, though I think we could have had some great bedroom time; but Tati is more than a f8ck. If she wasnt, I would be in and out of that as fast as the other two. this one is trouble, and I knew it from the start; but it was a good trouble, so now I have other concerns. Operation wont go until after the wedding; her parents could still not like me, they are apparently very traditional about the whole matter and dont approve of 'internet dating/brides/marriage' much less to a 'foreigner' So we shall see. Man Up, that is funny, it should be the tag line for Viagra, Levitra or Ciaylis You missed a calling as ad copy consultant.

12-27-2010, 07:48 AM	#9
cityxslicker PNW Love Member I'm a Dude Living in Sequim - Yeah, Baby! Blog Entries: 3	and now for a bit of paranoia, risk mitigation, due diligence..... this intermission brought to you by the brain and not the dick

12-27-2010, 10:36 PM	#11
Bikenut Litte Mary Sunshine I'm a Girl Living in just this of side of hell	hold up there little doggie...now I may be spending WAAAAY too much time with my head in pyschology books and reading about human behaviorisms so I apogize if I am over stepping my boundry here BUT isn't this relationship fairly new? I know serisous discussions MUST be addressed at the onslaught of any serious relationship but isn't this a little too soon? A reversal? As a friend, and I mean that truely, I would rather you both give this some consideration after dating for a year..shit, even 8 months I love ya big guy and just don't want to see ya plunge into something that involves an innocent child until you are both SURE you even want to spend the rest of your lives together..much less share custody of a kid. CS, please, I'm not being a negative nancy. I think I somewhat know you and I KNOW what you are experiencing is new and lovely but a child is a lifelong commitment...one that shouldn't be taken lightly. OK, now you can tell me to shut the fuck up

12-28-2010, 05:10 AM	#12
MrsD Married and then some. I'm a Female Living in Crazytown Looking for Conversation Humor is Goofy Have a Unique fashion style Blog Entries: 5	^^the voice of realism and very valid points.

12-28-2010, 09:51 PM	#13
cityxslicker PNW Love Member I'm a Dude Living in Sequim - Yeah, Baby! Blog Entries: 3	oh no, I am not jumpin under the knife just because it is a thursday yep, this train is indeed slowed down.