cityxslicker

Alright, after all this dedicated hard work to never come across as the nice guy (yes it is an effort to me) I have been called sweet twice today. WTF ? is the new brush off ?
Oh he's a sweet guy, but I would never date/bed him.....
damnit I have worked hard on my grumpy curmudgen attitude. somnabiatch

MrsD

You have that gentle face and eyes which right out of the gate makes you think sweet. Your voice is smooth and clear like someone you would like to listen to tell stories. Dang City your like a sweet Teddy Bear I don't know if hes sweet is the new brush off, I wouldn't think so. But what do I know, I will always think of you as grumpy curmudgen if that makes you feel better. What is a Curmudgen anyway?

Blu

I don't think it is, every girl wants there to be a sweet side to the person they r going to date/bed!!! Even if they r the only ones to see it

Vigilante

^^ I believe this to be true... especially if they are the only ones who see it (or at least the most often).

cityxslicker

Nope, Sweet is indeed the New Nice. I am shopping for a ten foot pole this week. I think Lowes has a special on them.

Qtip

If she's not talking about doing naughty things to your manly parts then any words she uses to describe you is bad....

Blu

^^^ Is that so???

Qtip

Yep

cityxslicker

If I want companionship and undying unwavering love?.... I get a puppy.
I want sex time in my pants , and being 'sweet' isnt a good thing, apparently.

Blu

Well maybe you aren't trying it on the right kinda girl....cause really, who wants to have sex with an ass, even if that's all it is!?!

O and Qtip I can be describing a guy and saying that he is really nice and still be thinking of all the things that I could be doing to his manhood. Sometimes us girls just like you to sweat it out, and think that we are sweet and innocent ;)

Qtip

The girls who like bad boys which is most of them, yes they don't want an asshole all the time but in my short lifespan most (95%) of my hookups have been when I was being a jerk

Blu

Well then I stand corrected lol You learn somethin new everyday...but I still stand by the saying you catch more flies with honey then vinegar, & yes every girl likes a "bad boy", at least sometimes!!

SiX

One thing about a lot of nice guys is they are push overs. It's nice to have a little bit of fight in somebody, some sign of inner strength. Unfortunately, there are very few with a decent balance. A lot of the nice guys I could completely manipulate and control if I were that type of person. Doesn't really appeal to me. Just as I don't like to be manipulated and controlled by someone else... well.. sometimes, but that's not exactly what we're talking about.

MrsD

Cityslicker..translate please.

Qtip

I'll translate it's called SPAM!!!

MrsD

I don't like spam.. its greasy compressed parts of animals smashed in a can...yuck. I have a spam scar on my face that shit spits at you when you fry it.

Qtip

Who doesn't love a SPAM burger now and then?

MrsD

Not me.. you and the Mr. can have that crap.

Qtip

No thanks I'll pass, when we were poor growing up that's all my mom could afford on a regular basis. So when I started making the big bucks I vowed never again.

MrsD

Growing up I had to eat that stuff too, but then I think she called it canned meat..but it was SPAM.

Blu

I love that stuff but now its so expensive the real stuff that you can't hardly afford to buy it when your on a budget lol

cityxslicker

Its SPAM no matter what language.... its a shoulder pork meat processed and packed in a can.... and drinking a beer apparently

cityxslicker

youre a nice guy ..... ugh damnit no.

Mikercw

Means.... your a pussy and it shows to the women

cityxslicker

I normally dont get that vibe, so yeah, I f8cked that one up.
but in my defense, I havent talked to her since; I refuse to hang around and be 'that' guy. maybe she will figure out I am not that nice of a guy.

Qtip

Meh just piitb and she'll figure it out!

cityxslicker

well yes, if you roll her over and drive up the back alley, you are definately off the 'nice guy' list.

Qtip

Yep and put on to the "I'm horny and want some freaky sex" list, which IMO is waaaaay better

cityxslicker

piitb isnt freaky.... thats foreplay ;)

Qtip

Winner winner chicken dinner