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Old 05-05-2010, 09:44 AM   #1
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"I didn't want it to be true" why do women always do this?!

So my girlfriend of 7 months and I just broke up.

I noticed 2 days ago something was wrong. Well last night she got WASTED at a party, and eventually broke down in tears, talked to some of her friends wouldn't go near me, or let me near her.

I went home...this morning I headed to her res hall, had to check 5 of her friends rooms before I finally found her in one. Turns out her phone had gotten wet and she had no way of contacting me (bullshit, i had texted the person she was in the room with).


anyways, She only remember spurts of the night before and I have to force it out of her.

"It just doesn't feel right anymore" and I asked her what she talked to one of her friends about, she wouldn't tell me, I forced it out of her, she has feelings for another guy (he's already engaged...). Apparently she's felt this way for a few weeks.

I ask her why she didn't tell me before, we had been SUPER open in our relationship about our feelings.

her response

"I didn't want it to be true"


SERIOUSLY?! THAT'S WHY YOU STRUNG ME ALONG?! This is the second woman in a row i've been with that has done pretty much this exact same thing.


Dear ladies: If it doesn't feel right, talk to him IMMEDIATELY, waiting for the feeling to pass never NEVER works. And it just makes it so much worse.
 
Old 05-05-2010, 10:11 AM   #2
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That sucks and I'm sorry. It's also a lame excuse on her part, but I'm Old and don't play games of the heart.

BTW Welcome to the Love Boat..
 
Old 05-05-2010, 10:28 AM   #3
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sorry andrew, it sucks.
 
Old 05-05-2010, 04:06 PM   #4
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so, turns out she talked a lot about feelings and kissed engaged guy a bunch (the guy who's room she was in when I found her).

I feel like i've been cheated on even though they didn't sleep together. For me, cheating isn't just about sex.
 
Old 05-05-2010, 07:22 PM   #5
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She didn't handle it very well, but the important part is that it's over. After that, the details don't matter much. Take a while to mourn, but remember that you didn't do anything wrong--she handled this poorly, and you can do better.
 
Old 05-05-2010, 07:23 PM   #6
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so, turns out she talked a lot about feelings and kissed engaged guy a bunch (the guy who's room she was in when I found her).

I feel like i've been cheated on even though they didn't sleep together. For me, cheating isn't just about sex.
Fuck why does spring bring out all the breakups Dude, you HAVE been cheated on, doesn't matter whether they did the deed or not. Now for my infamous unwarranted advice. You are right. Women are NOTORIOUS for this shit, I myself am guilty of such behavior in my younger years. Why? Does it matter? My defense was men notoriously were fuckin cheats and liars. Let's just say it is instinctive to some woman to beat them to the punch. Admit it ladies, we ALL had the back up guy back in the day. Your a liar if you say otherwise. That said, we were 'groomed' to this kind of behavior. Either way, Av, you got the short end of the stick. I hope you take the action necessary and tell the bitch to eat it. Yes, woman need to reminded of bad behavior just as men do. Find the hawtest ass gurl and bring her to a mutual party. Believe it or not shock therapy works with both sexes. She did you wrong. Make it right. She cheated...if I was 30 years younger I would hang all over you at a party just to make the point. Move on...she isn't trustworthy. Fuck, I hope your next gf is more worthy. Meanwhile I guess you will just have to keep accepting applications
 
Old 05-06-2010, 05:57 AM   #7
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Fuck why does spring bring out all the breakups Dude, you HAVE been cheated on, doesn't matter whether they did the deed or not. Now for my infamous unwarranted advice. You are right. Women are NOTORIOUS for this shit, I myself am guilty of such behavior in my younger years. Why? Does it matter? My defense was men notoriously were fuckin cheats and liars. Let's just say it is instinctive to some woman to beat them to the punch. Admit it ladies, we ALL had the back up guy back in the day. Your a liar if you say otherwise. That said, we were 'groomed' to this kind of behavior. Either way, Av, you got the short end of the stick. I hope you take the action necessary and tell the bitch to eat it. Yes, woman need to reminded of bad behavior just as men do. Find the hawtest ass gurl and bring her to a mutual party. Believe it or not shock therapy works with both sexes. She did you wrong. Make it right. She cheated...if I was 30 years younger I would hang all over you at a party just to make the point. Move on...she isn't trustworthy. Fuck, I hope your next gf is more worthy. Meanwhile I guess you will just have to keep accepting applications
Not me and I'm not lying, I just never played that game right out of the gate. It took me a month or two...maybe I was just a slow mover or I wanted to make sure I had a good enough specimen that the jealousy arrow would not only make a mark but do some collateral damage.
 
Old 05-06-2010, 06:02 AM   #8
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so, turns out she talked a lot about feelings and kissed engaged guy a bunch (the guy who's room she was in when I found her).

I feel like i've been cheated on even though they didn't sleep together. For me, cheating isn't just about sex.
Definitely cheated on and engaged guy.. cheater, cheater.. does his fiance' know??? Maybe she should You deserve so much better than that, summers coming there will be a lot of Hot Bikini's out there have fun.
 
Old 05-07-2010, 10:25 PM   #9
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