cityxslicker

Yep, The happy ending we all love.
The american states are 55-68 % first marriages end in divorce, 38-46% of second marriages end in divorce....

I have friend that would never would marry a stock broker, but she has divorced two of them. God Bless her.

So why the hell does anybody bother to get married? Is it all pointless? I know the answer for myself, but I just dont understand the marrying mindset.

Qtip

I think a lot of people feel that they need to be married to show the rest of the world that they are stable and normal, but all too often rush into marriage without really knowing the person and find that they truely despise them. And that is why I'm not married yet, unless RC says yes then I will be lol

MrsD

I guess I just liked the challenge of beating the odds. To give yourself in marriage says I will stand by your side no matter what the future holds. It means putting yourself second and if you have kids putting yourself last. Its the hardest job there is, second is raising children. Its not for the weak or faint of heart, its not for those who think well if this doesn't work out we will just get a Divorce. Shit happens granted and people change and then there's Divorce. Personally I think people throw in the towel to easily, they don't work on there relationship, they don't work on staying In Love. They forget there a team and there's no I in team, if they did the Divorce rate would be lower. I divorced my first husband because he was a douchebag, I shouldn't have married him in the first place. But I was very young, very dumb and very scared. Duane and I could have thrown in the towel many times, almost did once. But we never fell out of love and we have been married 29yrs. Its worth the fight with the right person and anyone who thinks they get married and live happily ever after..well they end up in divorce.

Qtip

You're right, there is no "I" in team, but there is an M & E lol

cityxslicker

There is also MEAT, its whats for Dinner

Washingtonblonde

I was never one that really believe in divorce until I went through one. Doesn't mean that I don't believe in marriage though. I was just fortunate enough to fall in love with someone that apparently didn't understand that to have and to hold meant just ME and not everyone else around us. Oh well.

I don't think marriage should be as hard as Mrs. D stated above, but yes, it's not naturally easy. I'd like to think that I'm definately going to be much wiser my next go-round at it.

Vigilante

I need to think about my answer for a while, but I can say this much...

If it's right there's nothing better, but if it's wrong there's nothing worse.

Mikercw

qft

Capt No Gravy

I think people have lost the whole concept of marriage, being a partner and the will to actually work together, through sickness and in health, through good times and in bad. Its sad, and now so many people have been hurt they are afraid to love, welcome to generation jaded! gawd im a dismal creature!

cityxslicker

All of my friends my age are all divorced. Some the guys fault, some the girls, but none the less, divorced. So half the house gone, all the toys gone, and strapped with alimony and a couple with child support.
Funny 5 years ago they were all asking me when I was going to get married and 'settle' down.

Qtip

cityxslicker

Thanks, I now have coffee on my monitor, and a spray on the wall that looks like arterial splatter from a CSI show.

Coffee out the nose hurts.

Qtip

I figured you outta all people would get a kick outta that.....and Mikey too

Mikercw

Yeah but if I get Married.... Im tapping her in the ass more than I would get in prison!!!

Bikenut

No offense but marriage IS that hard...especially one of almost 30 years. Although many may say "I never saw my parents fight", trust me, they did or one partner was extremely unhappy. Marriage must allow each person to grow also, usually to the disdain of thier partner. A marriage is a constantly evolving relationship, it must me to survive. Most marriages donn't last 10 years these days...10 years in a marriage is nothing. It's the next decade that things get dicey.

shit, you owe me a monitor you asshole...

Mikercw

So marriage being just like prison with less anal sex... has led too

2 messed up monitors, one hurt nose, one thought of bangin my girlfriend in the ass, and laughs

If Marriage is anything like ^^^^^ that..... i`m sooooo game!!

Qtip

Sounds like I'm doing good for the night, especially if you get some anal!

Mikercw

Well im NOT going to get it.... but ill give it..








To females that is.... I know you, you sick fuck... will take that the other way hahah

Qtip

Hahahaha, damn it am I that easy to read

Mikercw

no, but I would do it!!! haha

so knowing your sense of humor.... you would try

Washingtonblonde

How on earth did this go from a thread about divorce to a thread about anal??

Mikercw

Marriage = hell = like jail = like jail w/o pussy only anal = divorce = happy again = lots of pussy....

Kinda like that

cityxslicker

Divorce .... yeah, somebody is pretty much getting ass reamed. It is the all grabbing all fisting bum raiding of assets that it been done since the vikings. Pilage away .
BOHICA