Mikercw

Hmmmm..... Possible?
Think you can find the "one" not even knowing you have?

MrsD

Yes, I think its possible.

Vigilante

Attraction for sure... love is something deeper to me and I don't think I could fall in love from only a visual instance. Technically it depends what sort of love I suppose.

Maybe attraction, interest, lust, desire at first sight are more possible, but nothing is impossible!

Driftertank

Mostly what he said.

Sorry, but you don't fall in love at first sight. You can develop an intense infatuation, and the insanity that follows can feel pretty damn much like love, but it's not....it's a shallow thing, and while that can be TURNED to love with a little hard work and a lot of luck, there's no such thing as true love at first sight.

So how is everyone this morning? Did I pretty much piss evenly in everyone's Cheerios?

Armand

Yes... yes you did... now I've lost my appetite a$$ :(
But its all good.gotta be in class in a bit and I'm sure I'll find something worth tasting :D. Lol

TeashaMae

Not sure about "love" persay...I do know when I first saw my ex, hadn't even talked to him yet and I remember saying to my friends "that's the guy I'm going to date" and we ended up being together for 2 years.

Oh how I wish I knew then what I know now...lol

I think "love" needs time to grow and develope..I don't think it happens with just a look.

cityxslicker

Been there, done that, it is the E ticket ride in the amusement park. Enjoy it for all it is worth. And when it is over (cuz it will end, they all do apparently) good luck recovering.

Its been 20 years, and the girl still has my heart on the tiltawhirl.

Qtip

Love at first sight no, lust yes. Can that develop into love, definitely. I did fall in love with one of my friends realized she is "the one" and then proceeded to bury the feelings deep inside cause I would rather have her as a friend and in my life forever then date her, realize it's doesn't work out and lose her.


I have no idea whether or not that answered the question haha

SiX

I have experienced love at first sight... and relive it every time I walk into my garage as gaze upon my bikes.

Vigilante

^^ Hee hee... good call SiXer. It also applies to other types of vehicles for me.

Washingtonblonde

Have you ever wondered if she shared the same feelings?

Washingtonblonde

I believe in something at first sight.. not sure what. A feeling.. an attraction.. chemistry...

Vigilante

More than just "interest"?

Like what? What happens?

Washingtonblonde

infatuation.. you think about that person constantly and become excited about the idea of them.. not really knowing who they are but imagining that you do..

SiX

Yeah, I also love cars. You have a car and a bike that was love at first sight for me! I think I need a few minutes alone right now..

Qtip

Of course I wondered but it's a moot point, she lives in another state and has been in a relationship for the last 3 years with a guy I think is good for her.

Washingtonblonde

Oh yes.. Been there. That's how I ended up with my R6. I fell in love with one before I even thought about riding..

And my Aura..Love at first sight when I saw it at the Taste of Tacoma 3 or 4 years ago.... and as soon as I found one.. it was MINE.

Do you think she'd be the right girl for you if you were actually IN a relationship with her? Or maybe is it the thing you think you want but can't really have????? Or should I just drop this?

Qtip

Yes without a doubt I know she would be the right girl for me. We came close once but circumstances in our lives prevented it and we just dropped the idea coming to the conclusion it was for the best.

Mikercw

Interesting to see everyone's opinions on this... reason why I started it, to see all thought process`s on it!!

Vigilante

Yep, I understand this... suddenly many of the things that were so important are less of a priority. It's really exciting when that person turns out to be who you are hoping for (and more).

I hope you don't regret that decision later in life... It's never to late to check in and see how things are going, but you know what's best for you.

How was it for you?

SiX

It was awesome! Thanks.

Vigilante

Well, even if there is love at first sight, here's an example of how you know when it fades...

A man was sitting on the sofa watching TV when he heard his wife's voice from the kitchen:

"What would you like for dinner, Love? Chicken, beef or lamb?"

He said, "Thank you; I'll have chicken."

She said "Screw You. You're having soup. I was talking to the cat."

cityxslicker

Did somebody say Caturday ? thanks for the laugh.
This weekend is her birthday, I am 3 ctol into it (ctol is 100 militers of vodka). It also coincides with the Bolshevik revolution in Russia The Red Oktobpe.
She is 48.6 miles away, and twenty years ago; might as well be on the moon.

Mikercw

Again..... Man up!

cityxslicker

Why rehash the old ground of 'why did you do that? I cant believe you did that. I will never trust you from doing that" When I can out and find perfectly good reasons to not trust someone new ?

cityxslicker

right when I wasnt looking, wasnt paying attention POW and good.

love at first site, yep, again

Bikenut

I thought I responded to this...glad I didn't last year. Initially I would have said yes. Now I know for sure, no such thing. Love is like a garden. It needs to be cultivated and cared for. Things don't just 'grow'. It takes patience and hard work

Example one

Aw shit, and ya wonder why we love ya!!

Example two

Naw, if I recall you had some contact with her previously. It's not like you were just walking down the street and locked eyes on each other. You had some repore, giving the relationship more of a foundation

cityxslicker

nope, yana and I had a fight, she called me a liar, and I was done. so I figure if I was going to be accused of ho'n around, I was going to do just that. So I threw the Mac down and went poaching. Lined up a beavy of girls with hot prospects all younger than 22, .... and then outta nowhere bam Tati appears and turns everything upside down
tomorrow will be officially one month
She is dangerous, from the word go. The last time I knew that about a girl was 20 years ago. She is pure trouble, sees right through my shit and tosses back as good as I dish out. yeah, trouble on first sight. Shes here in feb, I am there in March, right when was 100 % dedicated to meh, I dont want a girl, I want a dozen of them, they cant get to me..... should have know, it is exactly how it happened last time.

Ot nepeBogo zglada OHa coBcem zHala Bcem cbogy
From first glance she had me, from there she saw right through me.

cityxslicker

'they cant get me, I dont trust them, hell next'

that was the day, that was the switch, its all so f'n clear now.

tammyv41

I don't think so...its nothing but attraction.Love grows with time.