Worst Mistake

Mikercw · 08-16-2009, 11:26 PM

Since someone thinks this ship is sinking... i`m posting a crap ton of threads....

Whats the worst mistake you have made in a relationship. What was the outcome?

MrsD · 08-17-2009, 03:30 AM

and I thank you for the breath of the fresh sea breeze

Bringing up his past mistakes....Out come

STOP BRINGING UP THE PAST.
Its something women do well. You put a knife through my heart at one time. Now I'm going to make you feel my pain over and over and over..this is Bad, very Bad. I don't do that anymore.

CForce · 08-17-2009, 09:29 AM

Not giving enough credence to the nagging feeling in the back of my head and getting married.

I'm not 100% averse to doing it again, but will be more careful in the future.

Driftertank · 08-17-2009, 07:08 PM

I've made PLENTY. Can I really pick one?

Caring too much, too soon....I seem to do that a lot. It's the romantic in me. At first, some find it endearing. Soon, it starts to become overbearing. So, that's something I'm working on.

Caring after the fact....after the breakup, I still want the other person to be happy. I've had a couple chicks take advantage of that (though not always in bad ways), and I've had at least one take it and get plain weird with it. She started acting weird - calling my friends to ask them where I was, claiming I was stalking her, finally filing for a restraining order months after I quit talking to her. That was a nightmare, and my friends finally had to ask her to go away....it was awkward for everyone involved.

Not being true to myself...I've put the things I wanted, needed, aside to try to make women happy. I have missed some important opportunities because of it - like when my friend's brother got home from Iraq, I missed his homecoming party because my then-gf wanted to go to the fair. Just an example.

Cheating....I don't even know why I did it. Or why I confessed to it, knowing she'd never have found out otherwise. We worked through it, but she blamed the other girl - a friend I used to hang out with - even though I told her repeatedly that it was MY fault. When they ran into each other and discussed it...suddenly I was a lying bastard. Nothing good ever comes from it. That's all there is to it.

Nope, I aint perfect by a long stretch. Hell, I may not even be decent. But I'm honest...and I'm trying.

Rockerchic · 08-18-2009, 07:52 AM

giving him a 2nd chance

outcome? I got dumped.....again.

cityxslicker · 08-18-2009, 02:06 PM

Being the nice guy. I am working on killing that one on a daily basis.

Qtip · 08-19-2009, 08:52 PM

Lied to someone because I thought I had to be their ideal person when they already liked me for me. Yep pretty much torpedoed that relationship.

08-16-2009, 11:26 PM	#1
Mikercw I TELL IT LIKE IT IS!!!! I'm a Guy Living in Willy Wonka`s Chocolate Factory- Down The Hall From The Oompa Loompas Looking for Conversation Interested in Women Humor is Dry/Sarcastic Have a Trendy fashion style	Worst Mistake Since someone thinks this ship is sinking... i`m posting a crap ton of threads.... Whats the worst mistake you have made in a relationship. What was the outcome?

08-17-2009, 03:30 AM	#2
MrsD Married and then some. I'm a Female Living in Crazytown Looking for Conversation Humor is Goofy Have a Unique fashion style Blog Entries: 5	and I thank you for the breath of the fresh sea breeze Bringing up his past mistakes....Out comeSTOP BRINGING UP THE PAST. Its something women do well. You put a knife through my heart at one time. Now I'm going to make you feel my pain over and over and over..this is Bad, very Bad. I don't do that anymore. Last edited by MrsD; 08-17-2009 at 07:18 AM.

08-17-2009, 09:29 AM	#3
CForce The Force I'm a Guy Living in Seattle Looking for Conversation Interested in Women Humor is Dry/Sarcastic Have a Unique fashion style	Not giving enough credence to the nagging feeling in the back of my head and getting married. I'm not 100% averse to doing it again, but will be more careful in the future. Last edited by CForce; 08-18-2009 at 02:17 PM.

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08-17-2009, 07:08 PM	#4
Driftertank Rezident Cynik I'm a Gentleman Living in Various Locations in WA Humor is Dry/Sarcastic Blog Entries: 2	I've made PLENTY. Can I really pick one? Caring too much, too soon....I seem to do that a lot. It's the romantic in me. At first, some find it endearing. Soon, it starts to become overbearing. So, that's something I'm working on. Caring after the fact....after the breakup, I still want the other person to be happy. I've had a couple chicks take advantage of that (though not always in bad ways), and I've had at least one take it and get plain weird with it. She started acting weird - calling my friends to ask them where I was, claiming I was stalking her, finally filing for a restraining order months after I quit talking to her. That was a nightmare, and my friends finally had to ask her to go away....it was awkward for everyone involved. Not being true to myself...I've put the things I wanted, needed, aside to try to make women happy. I have missed some important opportunities because of it - like when my friend's brother got home from Iraq, I missed his homecoming party because my then-gf wanted to go to the fair. Just an example. Cheating....I don't even know why I did it. Or why I confessed to it, knowing she'd never have found out otherwise. We worked through it, but she blamed the other girl - a friend I used to hang out with - even though I told her repeatedly that it was MY fault. When they ran into each other and discussed it...suddenly I was a lying bastard. Nothing good ever comes from it. That's all there is to it. Nope, I aint perfect by a long stretch. Hell, I may not even be decent. But I'm honest...and I'm trying.

08-18-2009, 07:52 AM	#5
Rockerchic miss-communicator I'm a Female Living in spokane Blog Entries: 6	giving him a 2nd chance outcome? I got dumped.....again.

08-18-2009, 02:06 PM	#6
cityxslicker PNW Love Member I'm a Dude Living in Sequim - Yeah, Baby! Blog Entries: 3	Being the nice guy. I am working on killing that one on a daily basis.

08-19-2009, 08:52 PM	#7
Qtip Engineer of the Love Boat I'm a Guy Living in One in Washington Blog Entries: 2	Lied to someone because I thought I had to be their ideal person when they already liked me for me. Yep pretty much torpedoed that relationship.