beansbaxter

What are you looking for in a relationship partner?

Mikercw

Someone who can just be themselves....

Not stuck up, bitchy, immature, rude.... and so on, too a point.

Everyone is looking for something different.... You have to find your opposite, that you are attracted too.

evander

an independent woman that doesn't "need" me but wants me.

GirlNinja

Someone that likes me for me and has their shit together (job, doesnt live @home, has a car, no kids, no crazy ex's their still involved with)

Thats the short list. Im rather picky.

Washingtonblonde

I don't think I know anymore. I thought I was looking for someone that was independant, confident but not cocky, someone who loves kids, shares common interest, isn't chemically imbalanced, is funny and drug free.

BUT.. the few people that I've met that I thought fit my mold turned out to be total flakes.

For the time being, I've given up on looking for the right 'relationship partner' and am just working on me and being a better mom.

midlman

Big time

Wild Angel

well after being married and know what I do not want my list is made I do not stick to the list it guides me.
SMART person education past 8th grade! Someone who has a good job stability and is $$ wise, Someone who can act in group gatherings like work functions they will not act like a dumb A$%.

This person would make me laugh alot and they would also love me for who I am what I was and who I am becoming!
The person would have an imagination for adventure and energy I have high energy. A compassionite lover who is not in bed to just finish but to be with me fully for a while.
Someone who I do not have to ask for something to be done they are aware and see and just do it and get er done.

NOT AN ALCOHOLIC but can drink social and I can trust they will stay sober sometimes so I may have some fun when out also.

Love kids and love to have fun with kids doing kid things.

well I could go on and on so that is some......Do I ask too much? Is that why I am still single?

zooktls97

I'd love to have someone who has an open mind. Life is short, but it's a never ending learning and there're so much to explore.

Rockerchic

my best friend

DJ Nathan V

Honesty and some common interests. I don't want en EXACT copy of me... how annoying would that be? Some common interests is great and what we don't share already we can learn from each other. Having similar plans for the future and what we both intend for the relationship is also important.

Washingtonblonde

Two Nathans?!?!? That WOULD be scary!!

Bikenut

someone who just understands and let's me be me. That can be a pretty tall order The biggest point, someone who doesn't want to CHANGE me.

Let me fail and let me learn from it

Watch me do the wrong thing, and yet be there for me when I cry about it

Encourage me when I want to try new things, knowing I will be frustrated at doing it

I can't ask for anything better. To me, that's real love. Watching the one you love fail, try, cry and pick themselves up and being there to pick them right back up.

DJ Nathan V

I know many more Nathan's.

Just imagine Raven Ryder and I running amok once he turns 21.

Brady

Look whos here! lol!!!

lets see....

Im not all that picky of a person...My view on "what your looking for" is you never know till its there. You need to be open to others personalities cause your virtually never going to get what you want 100%

I think as long as your have someone you find physically attractive, someone who can love you for who you are and not judge you completely on how you look, someone with a open mind and a kind heart, willing to work with you theyd be good. Thats my view atleast.

with me, what Ive found atleast is You can have the most gorgeous person youve ever seen but with a poor personality they are as attractive, but you can have a average looking person but with a amazing personality they far exceed to bomb shell of a girl.

If you can break that down and understand where Im coming from then you will know what Im looking for in a "relationship partner"

dizzle

awesome personality
has rhythm
confident but not cocky
intellectual
text fiend
fashion sense
common sense
and whole bunch of other shit.

Washingtonblonde

No Diz.. Describe your ideal partner.. not yourself. LOL.

dizzle

awwwwwwwwwww you just made me day sarah :D

i'm gonna drive down to olympia just to give you a hug for that!

Washingtonblonde

Yay!

Dragonfish

Young, beautiful,wealthy. Like that ever made anyone happy

2Naive

Friendship- then everything else comes easy.

Washingtonblonde

trust.. warmth.. laughter.. understanding.. compasion..

Bikenut

can I change my answer?

zooktls97

It's a free country, do tell.

Dragonfish

Scientists say that that "ZOMG I can't breathe when I'm with you I love you soooo much" feeling CAN last a lifetime. But only in about 10% of the population. The rest of us are doomed to die alone with our cats

Washingtonblonde

^^That's great news! I want that.. well or something like it.

Dragonfish

Living for someone or dying alone with your cat, either choice isn't much of a life

Washingtonblonde

Well now I don't need to. I now have a Macaw that will most likely outlive me.. so I'll die alone with my bird.

Dragonfish

Thats a good one! Most women die alone with their coveted BIRD

Cooley

I'm looking to transfer the relationship I have with my body pillow to a person.

there's more to it.. but that's all I'm gonna say for now

Washingtonblonde

^^Hmm.. what kind of relationship have you been having with your pillow?

Cooley

ah... an honest and enjoyable one?

Mikercw

hahahja thatds askijng to muich

Miss Annette

I want someone whose eyes I can look into and see no judgement........

Washingtonblonde

But you already have me, Annette!

Cooley

My pillow never tells me no or complains when I don't come back to it.

all it want's from me is that I do it's laundry, that I can handle

Washingtonblonde

Ethan! Come!

Miss Annette

Yes I do!!!!! But it would be nice to have what I have with you with someone who has the equipment to satisfy me in other ways.