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View Poll Results: Kids
Want kids, don't have. 9 36.00%
Have kids, don't want. 0 0%
Don't want 'em. 6 24.00%
Don't know. 6 24.00%
Have them, love 'em. 4 16.00%
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Old 11-17-2008, 03:39 PM   #1
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Kids, or No Kids, That is the Question 2

Want them? Have them? Hate them?
 
Old 11-17-2008, 03:47 PM   #2
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Public poll? Hmm...
 
Old 11-17-2008, 03:50 PM   #3
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Don't want 'em.... I will spoil everyone else's kids and send them home.
 
Old 11-17-2008, 04:02 PM   #4
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Fine, steal my thread and pool you you you Poll stealer you... i bet you still other mens womens too ;)
 
Old 11-17-2008, 04:03 PM   #5
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Where's the have them and want them option? sheesh.
 
Old 11-17-2008, 04:06 PM   #6
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Where's the have them and want them option? sheesh.
I'm blonde. Will be fixed soon.

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Old 11-17-2008, 04:07 PM   #7
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Where's the have them and want them option? sheesh.
Not only does he steal my poll, his poll is wholey unsatisfying once he steals it, huh?
 
Old 11-17-2008, 04:16 PM   #8
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what about, want them, but by the time the issue would come up my eggs would be too old to spawn my own let alone not really wanting to deal with a teenager in my 50s if i were to adopt?
 
Old 11-17-2008, 04:23 PM   #9
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what about, want them, but by the time the issue would come up my eggs would be too old to spawn my own let alone not really wanting to deal with a teenager in my 50s if i were to adopt?
 
Old 11-17-2008, 04:32 PM   #10
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I want them with the right person. I don't want someone else's kids I want my own. I don't have any of my own yet.
 
Old 11-17-2008, 04:44 PM   #11
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I want them with the right person. I don't want someone else's kids I want my own. I don't have any of my own yet.
So this brings up a question. You want your own kids and that's totally understandable.. but you say that you don't want someone else's. Does this mean you wouldn't be open to having kids with someone that ALREADY has kids?
 
Old 11-17-2008, 04:49 PM   #12
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So this brings up a question. You want your own kids and that's totally understandable.. but you say that you don't want someone else's. Does this mean you wouldn't be open to having kids with someone that ALREADY has kids?
As it stands I wouldn't want to date someone with kids. I say as it stands because stuff for me changes all the time. Who knows about my future but right now I don't want to date anybody with kids.
 
Old 11-17-2008, 05:16 PM   #13
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I like kids....other people's. No desire to have any of my own. Spoil my niece and nephew and send them back w/ their parents.
 
Old 11-17-2008, 05:48 PM   #14
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Want them someday, just not ready to now
 
Old 11-17-2008, 06:20 PM   #15
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dunno...maybe
 
Old 11-17-2008, 06:32 PM   #16
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Wanted them, had them, love them and now have grandkid with another grandbaby on the way
 
Old 11-17-2008, 06:34 PM   #17
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Ya know.... I think I want kids...

Then I look in the mirror and say to myself...

Hell I wouldnt want another one of me running around the earth....

Too Scary...





Then I wake up and everything is ok
 
Old 11-17-2008, 06:43 PM   #18
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Ya know.... I think I want kids...

Then I look in the mirror and say to myself...

Hell I wouldnt want another one of me running around the earth....

Too Scary...





Then I wake up and everything is ok
 
Old 11-17-2008, 08:24 PM   #19
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I've always been with someone that didn't want kids. I "accepted" that since I found I was totally in love with that person and worth the "sacrifice". Now that life moves on, I find my self in my 30's without kids and have a slight want/need for them. They don't have to be my biological children. Right now I'm looking into being a foster mom (I have not shared this with many people). I feel the time is right for me to be nurturing and having children. To have my own, I kinda need a husband or sperm donor. haha. I enjoyed partaking in "family" functions with my last guy friend and I miss the kids (which sux) I think its hard as the "outsider" to come into a family and try establish relationships with kids- especially if their "mom" or "dads girlfriend" experiences haven't been all that good. I don't want to be responsible for fuckin up someone else's kids.
I guess what I'm saying, I'd love to have kids, mine, theirs, ours....doesnt matter.
 
Old 11-17-2008, 09:23 PM   #20
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Then I wake up and everything is ok




I have 1 ~ that's enough for me... so much so, my tubes are done... no more for me.
 
Old 11-17-2008, 09:39 PM   #21
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I would love to have kids! I think for now I'll stick to my nephews.. Very cute, easy to play with for a couple of hours, fun to spoil.... and at the end of the day you give them back to mommy and daddy
 
Old 11-17-2008, 09:48 PM   #22
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Someday

Would love to have the journey of having my own.. but if its not in the stars, and even if it is... I plan to adopt at least one.. too many orphans that could use a good home...
 
Old 11-17-2008, 10:26 PM   #23
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i totally want kids.

i can't wait to have them.

*edit*
is this world even capable of having a mini me running around?
 
Old 11-18-2008, 12:01 AM   #24
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i would consider having children if i were to meet the right man. but that's going to have to be sooner than later if it's going to happen.












*now accepting applications....................jk.
 
Old 11-18-2008, 12:06 AM   #25
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i would consider having children if i were to meet the right man. but that's going to have to be sooner than later if it's going to happen.

*now accepting applications....................jk.
"The Right man" lol


I love when women use that term....
 
Old 11-18-2008, 12:58 AM   #26
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"The Right man" lol


I love when women use that term....
and just what is wrong with "the right man"?????
 
Old 11-18-2008, 07:53 AM   #27
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and just what is wrong with "the right man"?????
How about a man a little to the left?
 
Old 11-18-2008, 09:40 AM   #28
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"The Right man" lol


I love when women use that term....
there's the "right now" man.

but the "right man" doesn't exist.
 
Old 11-18-2008, 10:10 AM   #29
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Come on guys.. She's not going to just have kids with just ANY man.. As I would assume you wouldn't want to breed with just ANY woman!

Granted I’m in a different boat than most of you by already having kids, I must say that I think kids are GREAT!!! Your kids, their kids, adopted kids, foster kids.. even just kids that are friends of your kids..

Being a role model.. or helping just make one kid feel special is the most amazing and rewarding feeling!
 
Old 11-18-2008, 10:26 AM   #30
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Come on guys.. She's not going to just have kids with just ANY man.. As I would assume you wouldn't want to breed with just ANY woman!

Granted Iím in a different boat than most of you by already having kids, I must say that I think kids are GREAT!!! Your kids, their kids, adopted kids, foster kids.. even just kids that are friends of your kids..

Being a role model.. or helping just make one kid feel special is the most amazing and rewarding feeling!
i can't wait til my kids are old enough to have friends that can i spoil rotten when they come over.

oh man, i want what you got sarah.
 
Old 11-18-2008, 10:40 AM   #31
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oh man, i want what you got sarah.
Thanks, Dane. That's the ultimate compliment!
 
Old 11-18-2008, 11:11 AM   #32
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I have many nieces and nephews that I adore and I must admit that I am their favorite Aunt!!!! I love them to death and there is absolutely nothing that I wouldn't do for them!! However, when it comes to having my own kids I am much more cautious. It's not that a part of me does not want kids. I do! But I want to make sure that I am at a place in my life where I will do the least amount of damage to my children. Due to my childhood being an unfit mom is a constant worry of mine.

So I will use the saying.....if the right man came along I would love to have kids. When I say right man I mean someone who will balance me as a mother and make sure that our kids always know they are loved and are well taken care of. And of course he has to meet with my Princess Sarah’s approval.....
 
Old 11-18-2008, 11:17 AM   #33
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Old 11-18-2008, 12:42 PM   #34
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Have em, looovvveee em, couldn't imagine life without em!
 
Old 11-18-2008, 12:43 PM   #35
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I've been staring at this thread...and I still have no answer.
 
Old 11-18-2008, 01:29 PM   #36
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i've been staring at this thread...and i still have no answer.
lol..
 
Old 11-24-2008, 09:40 AM   #37
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There is never a "right" time to have them and they grow up way too fast! I think after you have had a few (I had 4) and you get a little older, "Me and my S.O. time becomes more of a focus.
 
Old 11-24-2008, 02:45 PM   #38
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Bump cause Beans fix't it.
 
Old 12-12-2008, 11:11 AM   #39
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I wants kids. I love me some minime!
I want them to be better than me, smarter than me, faster than me, stronger than me!
 
Old 12-12-2008, 11:53 AM   #40
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I wants kids. I love me some minime!
I want them to be better than me, smarter than me, faster than me, stronger than me!
Hmmm.. You better breed up then.
 
Old 12-12-2008, 11:54 AM   #41
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Today... I want more kids. Kids are awesome!
 
Old 12-12-2008, 12:09 PM   #42
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Hmmm.. You better breed up then.
I know. I really want to start making a kid next year, so the kid will be born in 2010 which will be the year of the Metal Tiger, freaken awesome.
 
Old 12-12-2008, 12:16 PM   #43
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Liez....no thanks.

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Old 12-12-2008, 12:30 PM   #44
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Today... I want more kids. Kids are awesome!
You can borrow mine....but I will need him back !
 
Old 12-15-2008, 05:30 PM   #45
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have and love. would never change anything bout it
 
Old 07-15-2009, 03:21 PM   #46
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You forgot the Dont have them, Dont want them button

Its ok, I think that I am the only one that would have selected it anyways.

Kids and cats, they both seem to like me well enough, I am allergic to both.
 
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