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Old 05-01-2011, 08:50 AM   #1
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The non-relationship

So my mother called me last week and told me that my grandfather died. Now before everyone sends out their condolences this bastard doesn't deserve them and I don't need them. When I was finally old enough to understand my mother told me about her father. He dis-owned her and refused to acknowledge me because my father is black. This was the first case of racism I had ever encountered. A few years ago I actually met him, he called my mom and asked if I would have lunch with him and my other cousins (who are all mixed, half Mexican) I agreed trying to give him a chance. Now side note, for those that have met me, most could never tell I'm half black cause I'm so pale from never seeing the sun here, for all purposes I look white. When he met me he wouldn't speak to me, look at me, or even shake my hand. I should have left right then. I guess I just wonder how someone could act like that to their own flesh and blood as well as their oldest grandchild. So is there such a thing a a non-relationship?
 
Old 05-01-2011, 09:20 AM   #2
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No one in this world should ever treat another human in that manner. The fact it was your grandfather makes me very sad, you did not deserve that kind of rejection. Imagine how your Mother felt not being able to share the joy of a child with her father. It was his loss and he paid the ultimate price he never got to know you.
 
Old 05-01-2011, 10:37 AM   #3
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nobody fucks your life up like family.

I have a great aunt, that had a house drop on her (figuratively) and the old witch wont die. I dont think Satan is ready for her yet.
 
Old 05-01-2011, 11:54 AM   #4
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Quote:
Originally Posted by cityxslicker View Post
nobody fucks your life up like family.

I have a great aunt, that had a house drop on her (figuratively) and the old witch wont die. I dont think Satan is ready for her yet.
I know a few of her kind.
 
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