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Old 03-01-2011, 05:32 PM   #1
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There's a man

LD is always telling me to be open and if I was going to be, I would do it here. I always dispense such great advice for others ala the saying 'take my advice, I'm not using it. I have liked this man for years. Do you realize what it is like to like someone for YEARS. We have recently started seeing each other. I know how this is going to end. Me drinking, crying, and heart broken. Good Lord, I could never express how much he makes me smile. We are very similiar. When I met him he was volatile to say the least...bad break up. I guess what I'm asking for is for some one to call me and tell me to break it off with him. If any of you were true freinds you would be dialing by now.

I think the purpose of my post is more intuitive. Watch, this will completly fall apart on me. I just want witnesses to know I'm not crazy
 
Old 03-01-2011, 05:57 PM   #2
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STOP IT AND I MEAN IT! Stop dooming everything good that comes into to your life. For once in your life stop pushing away! Believe it or not there are people out there that are not going to hurt you. There are people who may step back and lick there wounds for awhile and then come back. There are people willing to give unconditional love if you let them. This is a one day at a time life Dorian there are no tomorrows just today and the journey is about today. Oh yea and I love you so don't make me kick your ass to make my point.
 
Old 03-01-2011, 10:33 PM   #3
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Some of the best waves to ride are the ones from a hurricane.

Relax, but watch your back, nobody ever 'fell' into love by watching where you were going, being careful will keep your heart safe, it may not provide the life you want though

trust me on that one. safety is a double edge sword, that castle that you have your heart walled away in to keep others out.... for all intents and purposes, looks like a prison

and if need be, we all know how to operate heavy equipment ;)
 
Old 03-02-2011, 06:07 AM   #4
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Some of the best waves to ride are the ones from a hurricane.

Relax, but watch your back, nobody ever 'fell' into love by watching where you were going, being careful will keep your heart safe, it may not provide the life you want though

trust me on that one. safety is a double edge sword, that castle that you have your heart walled away in to keep others out.... for all intents and purposes, looks like a prison

and if need be, we all know how to operate heavy equipment ;)
 
Old 03-02-2011, 07:23 AM   #5
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LD is always telling me to be open and if I was going to be, I would do it here. I always dispense such great advice for others ala the saying 'take my advice, I'm not using it. I have liked this man for years. Do you realize what it is like to like someone for YEARS. We have recently started seeing each other. I know how this is going to end. Me drinking, crying, and heart broken. Good Lord, I could never express how much he makes me smile. We are very similiar. When I met him he was volatile to say the least...bad break up. I guess what I'm asking for is for some one to call me and tell me to break it off with him. If any of you were true freinds you would be dialing by now.

I think the purpose of my post is more intuitive. Watch, this will completly fall apart on me. I just want witnesses to know I'm not crazy
Stop this BS RIGHT NOW. He makes you smile. Is there a rule against you smiling? There shouldn't be. You might end up hurt again, but you might not--but if you sabotage it from the outset you already know how it will end up. So don't. Enjoy yourself for once!
 
Old 03-02-2011, 06:37 PM   #6
Litte Mary Sunshine
 
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It's all good. I came to the realization I am struggeling with more of what people think. For some reason people either tell me 'it's about time you found someone' or that 'we make a cute couple'. Ummm I didn't 'find' him, I have known him for years and we are not a couple. I feel pressured that something good needs to be labeled some how. We enjoy each other and just waiting to see how things go. When I posted I felt some sort of pressure that it either has to be full on or nothing at all. LOL, of course he let me know how he felt CS, you and this guy would be mortifying in public

My main problem is I need to come back with a snappy remark for people that want to label MY relationship with this guy. I am really happy and will just have to work at not letting people pressure me into something that they deem as, well, fuck, I don't know what they deem it as. Apparantly as a full on relationship. We just prefer the company of each other and see how things go.

Thanks guys. I don't recall being this happy for awhile although I would like to see him more, only adding to the whole mystique of our relationship. He's so awesome. He's the only guy I've ever known that has, or never would ask anything from me...although he did say he would ask me to leave if I got drunk and beligerent..yea, he's THAT funny.
 
Old 03-02-2011, 07:16 PM   #7
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Label it as companionship we are two people who enjoy each others company or label it as company we are company hey I like that ..Are you two a couple..No were Company..I crack myself up.
 
Old 03-02-2011, 07:59 PM   #8
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if you are happy, then it doesnt matter what anyone else wants to call it or label it, they can mind their own nit picky gossipy lameness else where.
Your close friends will be appropriately happy and supportive, and to the others, get in the ring, lets go a few rounds ;)

Get what you deserve, be happy.
 
Old 03-03-2011, 07:54 AM   #9
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Labels suck--don't worry about them. Honestly, I think a lot of peoples' unhappiness comes from trying to live up to other peoples' standards rather than making their own. Do what feels right to you, and don't try to put this into someone else's bucket.
 
Old 03-03-2011, 06:01 PM   #10
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Label it as companionship we are two people who enjoy each others company or label it as company we are company hey I like that ..Are you two a couple..No were Company..I crack myself up.
As you know this guy had me 'at hello'. He makes every day so amazing for me. Lol, I never thought I would make a statement like that, every day is amazing. Every day he encourages me to be me, and I mean every day. It is getting easier. He is bound and determined to pull me out of my shell, remind you of anyone? This whole thing is so crazy. I don't ever recall being so happy. If it ends tomorrow I have experienced something amazing.

Everday I hear "just tell me what you're thinking, I want to know". Wow, it is truely wonderful.
 
Old 03-08-2011, 11:23 AM   #11
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Let's concentrate on more important things. I'm hungry. I need help - like right now!

Dorian.... you are one of the raddest women ever and I can honestly say that when ever your name comes up, my instant response is "I love that woman". You are deserving of happiness. Let it happen!!
 
Old 03-08-2011, 08:46 PM   #12
Litte Mary Sunshine
 
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Labels suck--don't worry about them. Honestly, I think a lot of peoples' unhappiness comes from trying to live up to other peoples' standards rather than making their own. Do what feels right to you, and don't try to put this into someone else's bucket.

Dude, I am really seeing that. I always had to be a 'good' mother or 'great' wife, or married...how bout I just wake up everyday happy. That doesn't seem very important to most people. That's just fucked up


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Let's concentrate on more important things. I'm hungry. I need help - like right now!

Dorian.... you are one of the raddest women ever and I can honestly say that when ever your name comes up, my instant response is "I love that woman". You are deserving of happiness. Let it happen!!
Holy mother of God, how are you. Strange pasts bring even stranger futures. I also think of you. I hope things are going good for you and Norm and the kids.
 
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