reppinthe509

seriously.

theres this girl at work that is very attractive and i was gonna ask her if she wanted to go bowling tonight with me and my roommate and his gf who all work with us. and she came back to where i was and i helped her with stuff for like 10 minutes..and i couldnt manage to spit out. "hey, we're thinking about going bowling tonight. wanna come?" sot hen she left.


thennnnnn. i was at the store buying some lemonade and i get in line behind this verrrrry attractive girl and she says "you can go in front of me" and i DIDNT say anything but thanks...
and then when i was driving away she was walking out of the store. and guess what. i still didnt say shit. WTF IS WRONG WITH ME?!

MrsD

Absolutely nothing is wrong with you..your just a bit shy. You need to find a friend to help you out to over come your shyness a little bit. A friend that is a girl is a great help they can get things rolling for you. My youngest daughter has a guy best friend, shes always hooking him up. Hes not shy he just always picks the wrong women BTW some girls find shy attractive, its just miserable for you when you want to approach someone.

Qtip

Nope you're a pussy, you should start buying tampoons for that sandy manvag you have. Cheese and rice what the hell is wrong with the younger guys of my generation. Grow some fucking balls and open your mouth and say something, what's the worse that can happen? Oooo a chick told me NO, oh well fuck her I'll go find another one that actually wants to play with my man parts. Stop this woe is me pity party and do something about it.

I know I may be coming off harsh but for crying out loud you're 21, you should be having a different girl every night. Don't you live in a town with a major college? Go to a party there and have a random one night stand it'll get you back in the game

Bikenut

There is nothing wrong with you...you just don't have a quality most asshole men do...to hit on everything with tits. If you can't talk to girls you may be waiting for a long time until you find one bold enough to initiate a convo though. I say practice at home, I mean that - literally. When I know I'm going into a nervous situation I practice what I am going to say outloud. It really does help.

reppinthe509

well. my coworker today thought it would be a good idea that since i wasnt asking her that he would let her know i had a question for her. so i asked if she wanted to hang out tonight and she said "i would but i cant"

MrsD

Hurray its a start.... not a NO but a can't.. so ask again you broke the ice. Somrtimes you just need a little help from your friends

Blu

You know what just be yourself, act a little goofy, whatever just don't be stalkerish, and if you see someone you like ask 'em out, like Qtip said the worst that can happen is a no. And you did break the ice with the girl at work...good for you. You know what helps too I have found out is asking questions via text you can say what you want your not face to face so if you are so nervous thy can't see you and then if you get rejected no biggy.....good luck

reppinthe509

well first i gotta get her #. she seems too goody goody for me anyway. doesnt drink. i looked at her facebook and it says shes into christian music. i am not religious and dont want to be preached to.

MrsD

Just because she doesn't drink doesn't mean shes goody, goody and doesn't have fun. Also the christian music doesn't mean your going to get preached to. Maybe you should get to know her before you do a facebook background check. No number does cause a problem with the texting but numbers are easy to get...well sometimes.

reppinthe509

well we'll see

cityxslicker

some of the naughtiest girls I have ever known were down with JC
Catholic Private School.... every Freshman year should be like that ;D

Qtip

amen for catholic girls

cityxslicker

you can go in front of me"
yes but if I do that, I cant stare at your ass.... and I am really enjoying the view.

Mikercw

Time to grow some fuckin balls and just spit it out of your mouth already!?!?!

You probably are to afraid to say anything cause of denial!?!?! who gives flying you know what!!!

So yes... you are a fukin pussy for not saying anything twice... when the situation was just giving to you like that!

Qtip

Mikey, I love you in a non-gay way

Mikercw

ditto

cityxslicker

so its been a month, did you piiha yet ?

reppinthe509

fuck. almost grew some balls tonight

MrsD

Welcome back ..want to share what almost means.

cityxslicker

Almost, great for horseshoes, handgrenades, nuclear war and fat womenz

not much else.