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Old 12-25-2008, 03:43 PM   #1
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How do you know if your "Boyfriend/Girlfriend"?

So when your older you do not pass a note check Yes or No so how do you know if your "Boyfriend/Girlfriend"?

Is it if you go out on more then one date?

Is it if everytime your around eachother you kiss a lot?

Is it after sex?

Dating when your older can be confusing so if you are "seeing" someone I know at a point you should talk about it but what point does it have to be at when is the good point of time to discuss this?

 
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Old 12-25-2008, 06:15 PM   #2
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Very good question, Wish I had an answer for you. But Im clueless.
 
Old 12-25-2008, 10:27 PM   #3
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Good communication is essential...

If you don't know, you aren't.
 
Old 12-26-2008, 12:26 AM   #4
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I don't think there is any 'right' answer.. but I think that there will come a point when it should be discussed.. I have dated a few people that came out of the gate with wanting to be exclusive. I wouldn't advise it.
 
Old 12-26-2008, 04:34 AM   #5
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It really depends on the situation and if the events were meaningful to both of you.
on the communication, and more of each other's feelings toward each other to determine boyfriend/girlfriend status.
 
Old 12-26-2008, 12:01 PM   #6
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I think next time I'm dating someone...I'm going to go back to the note pass.
 
Old 12-26-2008, 12:24 PM   #7
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I think next time I'm dating someone...I'm going to go back to the note pass.
ME TOO!!!!
 
Old 12-26-2008, 01:08 PM   #8
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I think next time I'm dating someone...I'm going to go back to the note pass.
That'd be adorable actually.
 
Old 12-26-2008, 02:09 PM   #9
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Note passing is so old school....you can text each other

Him---U rang..wassup
Her---R we srs or not
Him---Huh..IDK
Her--- lk BF/GF
Him---Uhhh..phone call....TTYL


 
Old 12-26-2008, 02:18 PM   #10
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Note passing is so old school....you can text each other

Him---U rang..wassup
Her---R we srs or not
Him---Huh..IDK
Her--- lk BF/GF
Him---Uhhh..phone call....TTYL


 
Old 12-26-2008, 03:03 PM   #11
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When they are like my wallet: something isn't right unless my wallet is in my pocket.
 
Old 12-27-2008, 12:32 PM   #12
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Note passing is so old school....you can text each other

Him---U rang..wassup
Her---R we srs or not
Him---Huh..IDK
Her--- lk BF/GF
Him---Uhhh..phone call....TTYL



Haha.. Sadly this is most likely to be dead on.
 
Old 12-27-2008, 12:37 PM   #13
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what I hate is when you have had two or more dates and you talked everyday then all of asudden no more talking one person does not call the other as much....at first you think you might be something then whamo do call no show!! LOL

SO I think setting it in stone with a note/text check the box is a good one!! I would hate to think the other person is not dating anyone else and you are still testing the waters meeting new people going out on dates and they are only thinking of you all that time!
 
Old 12-27-2008, 12:43 PM   #14
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Good communication is essential...

If you don't know, you aren't.
If you have to ask.......This does not just happen, it is a progression or a decision made, communication is the only way. If you assume, you may one day get a nasty suprise as they may have assumed the opposite and that you felt the same way! Assumptions = bad!
 
Old 12-27-2008, 03:03 PM   #15
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I would hope this would come up in 'casual' conversation.
It doesn't have to be drilling the poor bastard to the wall for a yes or no answer. No one knows right out of the gate. If your taking it to the next level, communication should already be in place. If the guy doesn't broach the subject, keep on dating others. With all due respect to both sexes, why does everything have to be over analyzed. If your dating and enjoying each other, just enjoy it.
 
Old 01-25-2009, 05:08 PM   #16
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I think next time I'm dating someone...I'm going to go back to the note pass.
I recently had a guy pass me a note to ask me out. It was kinda cool, especially since he wasn't a creep. Unfortunately, I'm not that interested in dating him. Oh well.

As for when you know if you're BF/GF, keep the communication open. Relax, go with the flow and see what happens. Kinda the same advice already given so it isn't an original thought but worth repeating.
 
Old 01-25-2009, 07:03 PM   #17
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It's official when you put the "relationship" status on your facebook. That's also how you know when its over :P
 
Old 01-25-2009, 07:09 PM   #18
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It's official when you put the "relationship" status on your facebook. That's also how you know when its over :P
OHHHH! No I get it. So Odie.. how do you determine when it's time to do that?
 
Old 01-25-2009, 07:15 PM   #19
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I think next time I'm dating someone...I'm going to go back to the note pass.
 
Old 01-25-2009, 07:32 PM   #20
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OHHHH! No I get it. So Odie.. how do you determine when it's time to do that?
:shrug:

When the other person does it first?
 
Old 07-21-2009, 12:10 AM   #21
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Communication is key, here are a few pointers that will let you know

Hey do you mind if I see my ex for an intimate weekend?
(if they are upset, they could have been a girlfriend/boyfriend)
In a bar, He/She/They are cute, we should bring them home to join us!
(if they are upset, they could have been a girlfriend/boyfriend)
Finding an foriegn pair of underwear that are clearly not yours, or respectives others in your bed....
(if they are upset, they could have been a girlfriend/boyfriend)
You take a look at their phone to see who they are blowing up texts to.
(if they are upset, they could have been a girlfriend/boyfriend)
You still have notes from your old dates
(if they are upset, they could have been a girlfriend/boyfriend)

If you get grumpy over them doing exactly what your friends do, and you cant believe they would, then you are definitely wanting to be more than just friends.

And from my nephew. "Being in love is like Poo. you can talk about it all you want, but when you are standing in it, then you know its for real." Hes 8, damned astute kid.
 
Old 07-21-2009, 04:58 PM   #22
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haha.. cute.
 
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