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Old 03-06-2010, 05:08 PM   #1
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How do I get back into the swing of things?

So my question, how do you get into the whole dating game?

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Old 03-06-2010, 08:57 PM   #2
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Maybe start off with guys AND girls going out. Find out who has similar interests as you. Wine, dancing, art, etc...there are lots of events going on, especially with spring in the air. Leave yourself open to trying new things, and that includes new people. That will help your circle of friends "widen". then just allow things to happen. Don't TRY anything. Allow life to happen, and before ya know it, you will be meeting all sorts of new peeps. And Blu....you can reach out to me anytime I'm a wine gal, and have met some WONDERFUL new women friends. I'm finding that they are way more fullfilling than male relationships haha!
 
Old 03-07-2010, 09:25 AM   #3
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You could always come over and hang with me for weekend..I could show you new things
 
Old 03-07-2010, 11:43 AM   #4
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I'm not babysitting.
 
Old 03-07-2010, 03:02 PM   #5
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Alcohol.... and slutty outfits... they will get the attention... everything after that is up to you.
Alcohol will help you "lossen up" and make it so ya can mingle with the guys (and gals if you choose, hey it is 2010)... The slutty outfits will give the guys the idea your a "fun" person.... now just charm them with your wits....



Yes, putting out on the first date is wrong... just saying
 
Old 03-07-2010, 03:58 PM   #6
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There is something to be said for being out in the world doing something you love to do. You're at ease, smiling, and at your best. For example, I've met TONS of people out at live music shows and through motorcycles.

You might also try online dating. I've met lots of nice women through OKCupid.

And last but not least... find a way to make the Love Boat Shore Leave =).

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Old 03-07-2010, 10:19 PM   #7
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still liking my idea.....
 
Old 03-08-2010, 08:11 AM   #8
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^^^Like the 5 inch Hot pink stilettos she bought..I think thats a pretty good start..
 
Old 03-08-2010, 04:28 PM   #9
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Ok I am new to this so here I go.....As I am sure you all know that I am newly divorced. I had been with my ex for 11 years married for 7, I can't really say that I was ever in the dating game since he was my first EVERYTHING. So my question, how do you get into the whole dating game? I am not even ready for anything serious, but would like to go out with guys and have fun, so what do I do? Where do I meet people? Any help with this would be great thank you all
I think trickier part is to trully asses your motivation. It may sound simple at first, but if you think on it, you may find out, that you're not looking for what you think you're looking for.

I just had this conversation yesterday, over a glass of wine by fire in my back yard...

One could reason that development of a social network, would be the logical next step.
 
Old 03-08-2010, 05:13 PM   #10
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^^Wow I thought you fell overboard Welcome back..
 
Old 03-08-2010, 05:29 PM   #11
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^^^Like the 5 inch Hot pink stilettos she bought..I think thats a pretty good start..
**ding ding**
 
Old 03-08-2010, 06:17 PM   #12
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O and don't forget about my leather pants!!
Now you know there all going to want pictures don't you.
 
Old 03-08-2010, 06:33 PM   #13
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nudes can be sent to:
Mikercw@yahoo.com
or pm`d...
kthxbai
 
Old 03-08-2010, 09:09 PM   #14
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Now you know there all going to want pictures don't you.
Wise woman, that MrsD. Pics, or it didn't happen!

And are those fashion-weight, or are they good for motorcycling in?
 
Old 03-09-2010, 09:59 AM   #15
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WTF Taking dating advice from Mike is like taking fertility advice from octomom JJoker, nice to see you back

JJ and CForce are right...just do what makes you happy and begin socializing (without the heels and leather pants please).
 
Old 03-09-2010, 10:35 AM   #16
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WTF Taking dating advice from Mike is like taking fertility advice from octomom
Or any beaner for that matter.....
 
Old 03-09-2010, 05:32 PM   #17
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um.... and what about my advice... shit... Its a winner!!
 
Old 03-09-2010, 05:32 PM   #18
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nudes can be sent to:
Mikercw@yahoo.com
or pm`d...
kthxbai
and that^^^^^^
 
Old 03-09-2010, 06:26 PM   #19
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"Cause when you've seen one woman naked... you want to see every woman naked."
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Old 03-09-2010, 06:39 PM   #20
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um.... and what about my advice... shit... Its a winner!!
Thanks for reminding me...hey RC...great advice..didn't mean to leave you out sweets

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Thanks for the advice aunt D
And pics soon to come, with the heels of course!!
umm no Think of Fight Club..we don't talk about you know what. Have your parental units tell you about the time they talked about 'doing it' when I was in back of the pickup

I will talk about almost anything but if you don't want to pick sweet Aunt D off the floor you will post pics of yourself in FLAT shoes, an oversized t-shirt and jeans...thank you

The Great Oz has spoken
 
Old 03-09-2010, 06:44 PM   #21
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You mean The Great and Powerful Munchkin has made herself clear.
 
Old 03-11-2010, 02:05 PM   #22
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everytime I feel like the need to get in a serious relationship, I call my married friends.... hello instant cure.
newly free and looking for fun..... for me that is the bike or the gun range.
 
Old 03-12-2010, 09:40 AM   #23
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^^ I remember these days, but strangely my priorities changed when I looked into her eyes. When the right one comes along... blah blah blah.
 
Old 03-15-2010, 12:08 AM   #24
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When the right one comes along... blah blah blah.
Thats almost exactly what I said... blah blah blah.... true romance right there!
 
Old 03-15-2010, 02:55 PM   #25
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Its been a week.... pics or the leather and high heels never happened.
 
Old 03-15-2010, 04:09 PM   #26
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shes already failing.,...... sad sad sad
 
Old 03-15-2010, 07:23 PM   #27
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Jeez you guys- she's not even your type... she's not inflatable.

 
Old 03-15-2010, 07:24 PM   #28
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Its been a week.... pics or the leather and high heels never happened.
I can picture you know hunched over your computer for the last week...waiting...just waiting

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shes already failing.,...... sad sad sad
You should do commercials for pre-ejaculation..you have NO patience what so ever
 
Old 03-15-2010, 09:27 PM   #29
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Jeez you guys- she's not even your type... she's not inflatable.

Hey now.... I dont like my inflatable.... Mines feather down!!! Softer skin... geez!

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You should do commercials for pre-ejaculation..you have NO patience what so ever
Well No.... I dont.... I just masturbate or get head a lot..... She doesnt complain about the pre-ejaculation!
 
Old 08-11-2010, 08:42 PM   #30
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Find out who has similar interests as you. Wine, dancing, art, etc...there are lots of events going on. Leave yourself open to trying new things, and that includes new people. That will help your circle of friends "widen". then just allow things to happen. Don't TRY anything.
Well....you can't really go by my dating experience but I get out to bike nights usually 2 a week, Go dancing twice a week, and out to a club once a week. As you can see I am rarely home. Then there are other things I go to as well that are not regular activities such as the Jazz and wine festible at St. Michelles this last weekend. But I get out about 4-5 nights a week and I have not had any luck in the dating department. I just suggest getting out and doing stuff. I enjoy myself most of the time. But I do get lonely here and there. I have been divorced for 6 years but have only dated 1 guy three times. He wanted me to sell my bike. So I said that's not gonna happen. I am not sure this helped much but just go out and meet people is basically the point.
 
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