She suddenly wants to be "just friends"

krst451 · 03-04-2010, 12:59 PM

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Qtip · 03-04-2010, 01:13 PM

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Originally Posted by krst451

I met this girl a few months ago. We'd been hanging out as part of a group for a while, then recently started just hanging out together and texting each other basically all day.

After a few weeks of this, I asked if she wanted to be more than friends, and she did. We went on two dates after that. After the first one, she went on about how much fun she had and how she couldn't wait to see me again. She seemed really excited about me in general ("I had so much fun last night" etc.). But, after the second one, I asked her if she had fun, but she just said she was "struggling with the more than friends thing".

I tried to give her some time to think, but I couldn't help it and started asking questions. The only reason she would give is that she "thought she liked me that way, but now she doesn't think she does". When I asked her what caused her to change her mind, she said "You're cute, interesting, nice, and funny, so I don't really know why I don't like you in that way."

So, I was just wondering if anyone could give me some insight into what could possibly be going through her mind. I don't understand how she can list a bunch of reasons to like me, but then say that she doesn't.

I'm just so confused, and I feel like there must be something she isn't telling me. It's like she instantly went from being all excited to "feeling awkward".

Most importantly, I'm wondering if there's any hope...

Thanks!

Welcome to the Love Boat first and foremost! I would have to say that I think she might be scared at what you could represent. She obviously had a great time with you and might be a little frightened at the possiblity of it going away. I think there is hope for you if you stick with it, give her some space but not to the point where you're outta sight outta mind kinda thing. Let her kinda run the show for a little bit and see where things lead, she might just need a little illusion of control in the matter to help her confirm what she felt on the first date. Definitely don't hound as I have a feeling she bolt quickly.

Good luck and I hope things work out for ya!

There poker in the casino and shuffle board on the main deck, enjoy your cruise.

MrsD · 03-04-2010, 02:17 PM

Welcome to the Love Boat theres drinks in the lounge after 5. Oh and give her some space don't be to eager, not to available. Pretty much everything Qtip said. Good Luck...

Driftertank · 03-07-2010, 03:17 PM

You're too nice for her. She wants somebody to make her work for it. Somebody with problems.

Meh. Just go with the flow. Don't push, don't chase, just enjoy what you can. Love makes people do stupid things, and when both parties aren't headlong into it, it'll tear you apart.

I'm rubbish with realationships. Every time I think I've got something sorted out, something buggers it up.

So, take anything I say with a grain of salt. I'm rediculously cynical.

CForce · 03-07-2010, 04:02 PM

How old is she?

sin808 · 03-07-2010, 08:34 PM

gtfo spam

jjoker · 03-08-2010, 04:35 PM

Yep, age/maturity as always has a lot to do with it. I just recently came up with a new theory....

If you want to know how your relationship is going, match the amout of energy your partner puts into it.

That will tell you 'Exacta-mundo' where you're at.

cityxslicker · 03-11-2010, 02:09 PM

money, fame, swimmers body, 12 inch cock.
You are lacking in one or more of these fields. Go get them. If she doesnt come back, meh, who cares, you have money, fame, a swimmers physique and a 12 inch cock. Go shopping for a new girl.

SPAM, its just not spiced shouldered ham luncheoun meat in a vacuum sealed can.

Mikercw · 03-15-2010, 09:41 PM

12 inch cock.... geez... I wouldnt know what to do with a 12in dick!!!! wow

wait.... im fucked on all four of those things!!! DAMNIT!!

Driftertank · 03-16-2010, 07:16 AM

No, you're famous....or maybe INfamous is the proper word....

MrsD · 03-16-2010, 10:19 AM

Why yes he is.

Mikercw · 03-16-2010, 05:53 PM

oh really?

cityxslicker · 03-26-2010, 10:42 PM

SPAM, even in cyrillic you dont know whats in that can.

cityxslicker · 03-30-2010, 12:24 PM

His friends say pictures of you... they think you are fat, he is embarassed.

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03-04-2010, 02:17 PM	#3
MrsD Married and then some. I'm a Female Living in Crazytown Looking for Conversation Humor is Goofy Have a Unique fashion style Blog Entries: 5	Welcome to the Love Boat theres drinks in the lounge after 5. Oh and give her some space don't be to eager, not to available. Pretty much everything Qtip said. Good Luck...

03-07-2010, 03:17 PM	#4
Driftertank Rezident Cynik I'm a Gentleman Living in Various Locations in WA Humor is Dry/Sarcastic Blog Entries: 2	You're too nice for her. She wants somebody to make her work for it. Somebody with problems. Meh. Just go with the flow. Don't push, don't chase, just enjoy what you can. Love makes people do stupid things, and when both parties aren't headlong into it, it'll tear you apart. I'm rubbish with realationships. Every time I think I've got something sorted out, something buggers it up. So, take anything I say with a grain of salt. I'm rediculously cynical.

03-07-2010, 04:02 PM	#5
CForce The Force I'm a Guy Living in Seattle Looking for Conversation Interested in Women Humor is Dry/Sarcastic Have a Unique fashion style	How old is she?

03-07-2010, 08:34 PM	#6
sin808 junglist I'm a Male Living in Bellingham Interested in Women	gtfo spam

03-08-2010, 04:35 PM	#7
jjoker Random Fact Man I'm a Gentleman Living in Spokane	Yep, age/maturity as always has a lot to do with it. I just recently came up with a new theory.... If you want to know how your relationship is going, match the amout of energy your partner puts into it. That will tell you 'Exacta-mundo' where you're at.

03-11-2010, 02:09 PM	#8
cityxslicker PNW Love Member I'm a Dude Living in Sequim - Yeah, Baby! Blog Entries: 3	money, fame, swimmers body, 12 inch cock. You are lacking in one or more of these fields. Go get them. If she doesnt come back, meh, who cares, you have money, fame, a swimmers physique and a 12 inch cock. Go shopping for a new girl. SPAM, its just not spiced shouldered ham luncheoun meat in a vacuum sealed can.

03-15-2010, 09:41 PM	#9
Mikercw I TELL IT LIKE IT IS!!!! I'm a Guy Living in Willy Wonka`s Chocolate Factory- Down The Hall From The Oompa Loompas Looking for Conversation Interested in Women Humor is Dry/Sarcastic Have a Trendy fashion style	12 inch cock.... geez... I wouldnt know what to do with a 12in dick!!!! wow wait.... im fucked on all four of those things!!! DAMNIT!!

03-16-2010, 07:16 AM	#10
Driftertank Rezident Cynik I'm a Gentleman Living in Various Locations in WA Humor is Dry/Sarcastic Blog Entries: 2	No, you're famous....or maybe INfamous is the proper word....

03-16-2010, 10:19 AM	#11
MrsD Married and then some. I'm a Female Living in Crazytown Looking for Conversation Humor is Goofy Have a Unique fashion style Blog Entries: 5	Why yes he is.

03-16-2010, 05:53 PM	#12
Mikercw I TELL IT LIKE IT IS!!!! I'm a Guy Living in Willy Wonka`s Chocolate Factory- Down The Hall From The Oompa Loompas Looking for Conversation Interested in Women Humor is Dry/Sarcastic Have a Trendy fashion style	oh really?

03-26-2010, 10:42 PM	#13
cityxslicker PNW Love Member I'm a Dude Living in Sequim - Yeah, Baby! Blog Entries: 3	SPAM, even in cyrillic you dont know whats in that can.

03-30-2010, 12:24 PM	#14
cityxslicker PNW Love Member I'm a Dude Living in Sequim - Yeah, Baby! Blog Entries: 3	His friends say pictures of you... they think you are fat, he is embarassed.