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Old 10-21-2008, 12:30 AM   #1
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Hey WOMEN

Don't wear rings if you're not married kthx? It's confusing and if I hit on you anyway I look like an ass who doesn't care about monogamy. Pretty much the only place I can meet women is my kids parks and kids activities and such and EVERYONE is married so I watch for the ones with no rings and if you wear one and aren't married you're a damn liar and are missing out on me, who is awesome.
 
Old 10-21-2008, 12:58 AM   #2
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I do it sometimes.. when Im just not with my man that night.. dunno, keeps men away that I just dont want to deal with.. sorry.. i guess it does sound bad from guys point of view
 
Old 10-21-2008, 01:13 AM   #3
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I don't think it's that big of a deal if you've got a boyfriend, but if you're completely single it's hard to ask you out and not look like a creep.
 
Old 10-21-2008, 08:52 AM   #4
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What?! People actually CARE if a person is married? I don't believe it!!!
 
Old 10-21-2008, 08:56 AM   #5
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What?! People actually CARE if a person is married? I don't believe it!!!
I bet you more guys actually care then you would expect. I for one, always look at the hand, and if there is a ring on the finger I don't go and talk to them. I guess i'm just nice deep down...
 
Old 10-21-2008, 08:59 AM   #6
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I bet you more guys actually care then you would expect. I for one, always look at the hand, and if there is a ring on the finger I don't go and talk to them. I guess i'm just nice deep down...
Actually.. I really don't recall getting hit on much when I was married. I think my reaction was more about women going after married men. There never seems to be a shortage of them. I, for one, just don't understand them.
 
Old 10-21-2008, 09:02 AM   #7
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Actually.. I really don't recall getting hit on much when I was married. I think my reaction was more about women going after married men. There never seems to be a shortage of them. I, for one, just don't understand them.
Yes, you often here about women who only go for married men....I think it has something to do with the fact that they think they are more mature or something.......God are they wrong.
 
Old 10-21-2008, 09:53 AM   #8
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There's a lot of unhappy married peeps out there. But for some it's complicated so they stray. Question is, will you be the catalyst?
 
Old 10-21-2008, 10:16 AM   #9
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There's a lot of unhappy married peeps out there. But for some it's complicated so they stray. Question is, will you be the catalyst?

Nope. In my book that's just not cool. If someone's in a relationship they should try to work it out, not find someone to replace the s/o. Relationships can take a little work sometimes and if you're willing to walk away every time you're 'unhappy' about part of it then perhaps there's something more going on?

I won't (honestly) go after another guys's girl. Too much respect for the other guy. If it's a bad (read: abusive or otherwise) relationship I might encourage her away but I won't allow myself to gain from that if she does improve her situation.
 
Old 10-21-2008, 10:19 AM   #10
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Nope. In my book that's just not cool. If someone's in a relationship they should try to work it out, not find someone to replace the s/o. Relationships can take a little work sometimes and if you're willing to walk away every time you're 'unhappy' about part of it then perhaps there's something more going on?

I won't (honestly) go after another guys's girl. Too much respect for the other guy. If it's a bad (read: abusive or otherwise) relationship I might encourage her away but I won't allow myself to gain from that if she does improve her situation.
What about just having respect for yourself....I think that is a huge problem in todays society...people have no self respect.

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Old 10-21-2008, 12:05 PM   #11
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I do it sometimes.. when Im just not with my man that night.. dunno, keeps men away that I just dont want to deal with.. sorry.. i guess it does sound bad from guys point of view
I totally understand that because you have a man. My last ex wore a ring all the time so men didn't hit on her and I was all for it because we were basically married. But if you're available.... well that's just downright lying
 
Old 10-21-2008, 12:07 PM   #12
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What about just having respect for yourself....I think that is a hug problem in todays society...people have no self respect.
There's no such thing as a hug problem! Everyone should hug! Hugging is my favorite!
 
Old 10-21-2008, 12:09 PM   #13
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There's no such thing as a hug problem! Everyone should hug! Hugging is my favorite!
LOL Hugging is awsome !!!! fixed by the way
 
Old 10-21-2008, 12:10 PM   #14
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I like riding two up because it's like getting a really long hug
 
Old 10-21-2008, 12:17 PM   #15
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well my comment to that is make sure u know which hand the ring finger is on! I wear my grandmothers ring- but on the right hand. I cant tell you how many times I've got "so ur married huh?" FUCK NO! and if ur dumb enough to not figure it out......
 
Old 10-21-2008, 12:19 PM   #16
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well my comment to that is make sure u know which hand the ring finger is on! I wear my grandmothers ring- but on the right hand. I cant tell you how many times I've got "so ur married huh?" FUCK NO! and if ur dumb enough to not figure it out......
Ha ha that is funny......yes america is home of stupid...left hand or the other left hand.
 
Old 10-21-2008, 12:19 PM   #17
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I like riding two up because it's like getting a really long hug
Ahhhh! That's the sweetest thing ever!
 
Old 10-21-2008, 12:19 PM   #18
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I won't (honestly) go after another guys's girl. Too much respect for the other guy.
welll youre one of the few.. or maybe im just jaded given my last experience....

i wore a ring when i was in egypt.. it was more of protection than anything else.. and it only cut down on the harassment somewhat (you american? you need husband?)
 
Old 10-21-2008, 01:08 PM   #19
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I won't (honestly) go after another guys's girl. Too much respect for the other guy. If it's a bad (read: abusive or otherwise) relationship I might encourage her away but I won't allow myself to gain from that if she does improve her situation.

whats up with those guys who do go after another guys girl? especially when they know the guy... shady....
 
Old 10-21-2008, 01:31 PM   #20
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Don't wear rings if you're not married kthx? It's confusing and if I hit on you anyway I look like an ass who doesn't care about monogamy. Pretty much the only place I can meet women is my kids parks and kids activities and such and EVERYONE is married so I watch for the ones with no rings and if you wear one and aren't married you're a damn liar and are missing out on me, who is awesome.
I'm not gonna read everything posted below this... all I got is if you are married DO WEAR YOUR RING! omg that shit is way too upsetting.
 
Old 07-27-2009, 04:17 PM   #21
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Hint, not everyone wears their wedding ring on the left hand. In Russia it is worn on the Right hand, because the left (sinister orig Latin) is associated with the devil. Best just to ask.

I have a couple of ring bands in a box by the sink, I have been known to wear them on my left hand; never been married, never will be married.... try it sometime, you will be suprised that alot of women dont have the dont talk rule mentioned earlier.
 
Old 07-27-2009, 09:31 PM   #22
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I think a lot of women go after married men because it's 'safe'. They must be really f'ed up.
 
Old 07-28-2009, 12:22 AM   #23
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***Note to self.... Get a silver band sized for my finger
 
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