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Old 12-26-2008, 07:12 PM   #1
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GUYS WHAT do you look at when you...

Go to a Females house?

So guys when you go to a females home and you just started to date her like been on one or two dates and you come over to hang out or pick her up.

What is it that you look at in the house? Do you care if it is well kept or if the toilet has been wash in the last week.

How about the kitchen do you care if a few dishes are on the counter.

I can tell you when I go to a guys house I expect it to be dirty a little and no toilet paper and a lot of beer in the fridge. So I do not judge fully on a guys house but it is on a check list. If a guys house is cleaner then mine that freaks me out!

Do you guys judge a girl by her home and do you take into consideration if she has kids and the house has not been squeeky cleaned?
 
Old 12-26-2008, 08:00 PM   #2
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LOL!!! This is a good question. I can't wait to see what the guys say....I once went out with a friend and this guy she just started dating and he invited us back to his place. When he was giving us the tour she leans down and whispers in my ear to go look in his bathroom and see if his toilet is clean!!! Apparently, having a clean toilet was on her list of must haves....LOL
 
Old 12-27-2008, 03:13 AM   #3
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oh here I go.......
1. How Clean is it, having a really messed up house shows that the person really doesnt care

2. If she has kids, how do they act in the house... Cause hey if they are going to run around hitting everything and making a mess. They might try that crap at my place.

3. Kitchen... dirty dish here or there... fine... Dirty dishes stacked with mold growing... yeah NO

4.Bathroom- Everyone knows that unless your in there cleaning EVERY day its not going to be spotless... Biggest thing for me, if she leaves out her Tampax and feminine care products out in the open.. I HATE THAT!!
Shower- Needs to be somewhat clean looking- cause thats where you are suppose to get clean!

5. Smells - If she has cats indoor... does she clean the box and are no smells.. or the "Wet" animal smell in the house... turn off

6. Number 6 and probably the most important... If she smokes or others, do they smoke inside or are they respectful and go outside... Nothing ruins a night more than stale Cigarette smoke in a house.
 
Old 12-27-2008, 10:07 AM   #4
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oh here I go.......
1. How Clean is it, having a really messed up house shows that the person really doesnt care

2. If she has kids, how do they act in the house... Cause hey if they are going to run around hitting everything and making a mess. They might try that crap at my place.

3. Kitchen... dirty dish here or there... fine... Dirty dishes stacked with mold growing... yeah NO

4.Bathroom- Everyone knows that unless your in there cleaning EVERY day its not going to be spotless... Biggest thing for me, if she leaves out her Tampax and feminine care products out in the open.. I HATE THAT!!
Shower- Needs to be somewhat clean looking- cause thats where you are suppose to get clean!

5. Smells - If she has cats indoor... does she clean the box and are no smells.. or the "Wet" animal smell in the house... turn off

6. Number 6 and probably the most important... If she smokes or others, do they smoke inside or are they respectful and go outside... Nothing ruins a night more than stale Cigarette smoke in a house.
Pretty good list Mike. Let me add. =}

Laundry.....do you do it? a seperated pile of clean and dirty clothes on the floor or everywhere but the closet is a lose lose.

Too clean is as bad as too dirty. If it looks like I have to be carful when sitting to get comfy, whether because I have to brush off the couch or check my clean clothes to make sure they are clean enough to sit....not good. I am drawn towards cleaner but don't do well with overly anal people. No 1980's plastic runways!!!

I look around to get a sense of style and personality, your home, whether you have the money to make it what you want or not says everything about you. If one takes the time to pay attention they can learn a lot.
 
Old 12-27-2008, 11:14 AM   #5
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i'm reading ur lists and have to lol...
i fail


i'm lucky to get one good day of cleaning at my place-
if ya catch me on that day, I'm golden...catch me during the work week...uh oh
 
Old 12-27-2008, 11:47 AM   #6
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i'm reading ur lists and have to lol...
i fail


i'm lucky to get one good day of cleaning at my place-
if ya catch me on that day, I'm golden...catch me during the work week...uh oh
LOL! Don't get me wrong, I understand a few days of clutter. It is not difficult to see that is what it is, if normally reletively clean. God knows I hate laundry and don't always do what I feel should be done and the dishes.....I am the only one here, I tend to rinse and stack until I have enough to make it worth while as I do them by hand.
There is a difference between being very busy or to tired from the goings on of a certain day than living as a full time slob. =}
 
Old 12-27-2008, 12:08 PM   #7
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I will say this......there is a big difference between someone single and someone who has kids! I am single and have no kids. So for the most part my apartment was always clean - not overly clean but everything had its place. So, last summer I took my nieces for a week (one was 9 the other 11). OMG!!!! I never realized. I tried to keep things in order and somewhat clean but it was impossible!!! Finally, I threw up my hands and just let things lay until after I took them back to their mothers. lol
 
Old 12-27-2008, 12:14 PM   #8
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... And this is WHY I don't have guys at my house.. My house is NEVER clean.. Period. My projects will NEVER be completed.. Period. Living in a house with 4 girls.. Yes.. there are Tampax products out in the open. Dishes.. We do dishes once, maybe twice a day.. and there is ALWAYS going to be a dish or two in the sink. Just the way it works when people eat when they are hungry. Basically, my house is meant for LIVING.. I don't have one of those 'ready to entertain' houses.

As for going to the opposite sex's place.. Freakishly clean freaks me out. Clutter - well I have to understand that one. Dirty is a bit of a turn off though.
 
Old 12-27-2008, 12:32 PM   #9
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speaking of kids-

yeah, don't have my own but first thing i did was trip over one of the 4yr olds "princess" tiarra....and my table is covered with breakfast....


i went back to bed
 
Old 12-27-2008, 12:33 PM   #10
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wow good stuff I was thinking about this since I may start dating if I am lucky to find someone to date me!! And there is nothing like the suprize lets go to my place or your place pop in! I try to tell my daughter how I like to have her do the dishes everyday by 4pm before I get home you never know who will stop in and a mess is not cool. Also I do not use the common bathroom in my house my girls do and one day I went in their and was suprized how nasty a 17 yr old girl could let a toilet get!! So now I pay attention to that bathroom more!! LOL

Yes I agree that if someone takes time to look around at how a house is set up you can learn alot about that person.
 
Old 12-29-2008, 09:43 AM   #11
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If she's a bonifide crazy cat woman I would say nah-uh!
 
Old 12-29-2008, 10:14 AM   #12
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i look at the art work and the types of magazines she has laying out. I try to scope out here interests so i can find something common to talk about over dinner.

Yes, i agree with mike on a lot of the stuff he listed, but that's not something i'm gonna notice so much the first time i go to her house.
 
Old 12-29-2008, 05:27 PM   #13
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... And this is WHY I don't have guys at my house.. My house is NEVER clean.. Period. My projects will NEVER be completed.. Period. Living in a house with 4 girls.. Yes.. there are Tampax products out in the open. Dishes.. We do dishes once, maybe twice a day.. and there is ALWAYS going to be a dish or two in the sink. Just the way it works when people eat when they are hungry. Basically, my house is meant for LIVING.. I don't have one of those 'ready to entertain' houses.

As for going to the opposite sex's place.. Freakishly clean freaks me out. Clutter - well I have to understand that one. Dirty is a bit of a turn off though.
No one listen to Sarah, when i was there her place was very clean. She was definitely ready to entertain
 
Old 12-29-2008, 05:30 PM   #14
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No one listen to Sarah, when i was there her place was very clean. She was definitely ready to entertain
hmmmmm....by any chance was it around the time of a certain birthday party?
 
Old 12-29-2008, 05:33 PM   #15
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hmmmmm....by any chance was it around the time of a certain birthday party?
I don't think so, it was after the 101 ride earlier this year.
 
Old 12-29-2008, 05:36 PM   #16
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I don't think so, it was after the 101 ride earlier this year.
hmmmmmm......you must have been really lucky and caught her on an off day. lol
 
Old 12-29-2008, 07:34 PM   #17
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hmmmmm....by any chance was it around the time of a certain birthday party?
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I don't think so, it was after the 101 ride earlier this year.
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hmmmmmm......you must have been really lucky and caught her on an off day. lol
No Annette.. My house has been clean twice.. LOL..
 
Old 12-30-2008, 11:02 AM   #18
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I agree Dizzle 100% and Mike about 50%. I look to see if the house/apt/condo is kept TOO clean. Too clean and we're looking a potential ocd that could cause problems down the road. I like a home that is lived in, not on display like the place is being sold. I don't want to have to have a debate with myself before taking a whiz as to weather I should sit and dip my Wang into the water to keep from splashing or not.
 
Old 12-30-2008, 11:05 AM   #19
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I don't want to have to have a debate with myself before taking a whiz as to weather I should sit and dip my Wang into the water to keep from splashing or not.
 
Old 12-30-2008, 11:09 AM   #20
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I agree Dizzle 100% and Mike about 50%. I look to see if the house/apt/condo is kept TOO clean. Too clean and we're looking a potential ocd that could cause problems down the road. I like a home that is lived in, not on display like the place is being sold. I don't want to have to have a debate with myself before taking a whiz as to weather I should sit and dip my Wang into the water to keep from splashing or not.
Well hey.. if your wang dips into the water then you're doing pretty good for yourself!
 
Old 12-30-2008, 11:17 AM   #21
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Well hey.. if your wang dips into the water then you're doing pretty good for yourself!
I have to admit he is becoming more and more intriguing...works at a porn store....has a big wang....definitely have to meet this guy!
 
Old 12-30-2008, 10:21 PM   #22
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Dizzle kinda beat me to the bunch but aside from the obvious... I look at the DVD collection or what's on her DVR.
 
Old 12-30-2008, 10:38 PM   #23
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With my list... i`m not meaning an OCD person being too clean... But basically what could and is looked at by guys.. not saying all is
 
Old 12-31-2008, 04:05 PM   #24
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boyfriends are a reason for me to keep my place clean. otherwise, since it's just me, the place is a disaster.

what's weird is that i'll clean other people's places without realizing it, but hell if i'm about to do my own. and when living with a boyfriend, the place tends to stay 98% spotless. it's when i'm alone, i just don't care. if a guy friend is coming over, i'll clean it to livable state. probably a bit cluttered, not spotless, but not where i have pathways through the house for me and my cat to walk through.

that being said, don't judge strictly based on how clean her place might be. could be totally different in togethered living situation.
 
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