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| Doctor of Love...Ask away I'm a Lady Living in Spokane WA. |
Okay question is more of have you ever and are you a slut if you did and what if? Okay as an adult you travel and possible a lot. You are single and you go to the Hotel lounge. You end up talking with a very attractive Male/Female. You both did not drink a lot but the bar closes early and the other sex (male/Female) continues talking with you in the Lobby for hours. You both are enjoying the company. The other sex asked you to his/her room to show you “something”. You are in his/her room get the grand tour of the larger then your room suite. Then you start making out, that leads to sex and you question should you stay the night? Of course you stay the other person said they did not want you to leave. This one night stand is different you both snuggle all night just touching each other and really enjoying your time together. Morning comes and he/she gives you their business card with personal email address. You both express that you had a great time spending it together. You kiss at the elevator and say good-by as the other leaves to catch a flight. ![]() Have you ever done that in some way? So are you both sluts for doing that? ![]() What do you do if one contacts the other and you get a little response back? ![]() Do most single adults have casual sex or is it just the “lucky ones”? ![]() How do you find this casual sex?
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| Awesome. I'm a Dude Living in Seattle |
I can't say... I don't travel on business. ![]() I am excited to see how people respond. This should be intriguing. |
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| Doctor of Love...Ask away I'm a Lady Living in Spokane WA. |
Yes should be interesting I know we have some traveling PNW ladies on here and I am sure there is some men.
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| *Will Say What Most Wont* I'm a Guy Living in Willy Wonka`s Chocolate Factory- Down The Hall From The Oompa Loompas | ![]() kthx
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| Doctor of Love...Ask away I'm a Lady Living in Spokane WA. | I am so behind the times WTF does that mean? (kthx) I am unsure if Ishould ask my teenager!! LOL
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| Awesome. I'm a Dude Living in Seattle | Quote:
= Ninja (but you knew that )all the little things like that confuse the heck out of me.. I'm not such a fan | |
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| pees standing up I'm a Chicky-poo Living in a hole |
if you do it on a regular basis (ie every trip) probably. if not, no.
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| So Amazingly Happy I'm a Lady Living in Lacey, WA |
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| Doctor of Love...Ask away I'm a Lady Living in Spokane WA. | Quote:
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| pees standing up I'm a Chicky-poo Living in a hole |
i like playing "just the tip"
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| Litte Mary Sunshine I'm a Girl Living in just this of side of hell | wtf? No offense to OP but isn't this like asking "does my ass look big in these pants?" Who cares what other people think of you. God knows I don't Do what you want. I think you'd be a slut if ya went around bragging about all the guys you've been with, but isn't that what sluts DO? If two adults want to get down and dirty - who cares. I suck at this forum I was hoping it would help me get in touch with my emotional side, it's only reaffirmed I don't have one.
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| At Banned Camp I'm a Dude Living in seattle | Quote:
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| Down the Rabbit Hole I'm a Gentleman Living in Washington |
I think everyone gets their "one" rendezvous to learn something in life. If one does this frequently, regardless if it is on travel or at local hangouts (bars, clubs, social settings, parties with friends), then yes, one is building a "reputation" and should expect others to view it as such. It comes back to the "asking questions" situation that popped up in the other thread. If you are doing things in life that you want, why should it matter what others think? But at the same time, if you are dong things that you are worried about having to "face up to" or be questioned about later on in life, maybe you should re-think your actions? |
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| M0DERAT0R I'm a Gentleman Living in Auburn, WA |
If it happens often, you're a slut.
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| So Amazingly Happy I'm a Lady Living in Lacey, WA | Quote:
![]() If I were to start dating someone.. that's had sex on the road.. then uh.. What would that matter? As long as they aren't doing it while we're together.
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| Down the Rabbit Hole I'm a Gentleman Living in Washington | Quote:
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| dirty little filipino boy I'm a Dude Living in Lynnwood |
is that why you didn't come see me on friday? I hate you! on a serious note, it was a "one night stand". Just that. I wouldn't have even gotten the girl's phone number because we were both traveling on business and it was a business fuck. Nothing more. Not a business "girlfriend", or a business "snuggle buddy". It was a one time business fuck. now apologize for choosing the stranger over me and not seeing me on friday.
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| So Amazingly Happy I'm a Lady Living in Lacey, WA | SOOOO what? Why would it be okay to do it once for the 'exerience' but not okay to do it more than once? Who cares? Is anybody getting hurt from this? No. Just because you think it's not in your values to do something like this (which by the way thinking it's okay to do it once but not more than that is TOTALLY stupid in my mind) doesn't mean that it's not okay for others to do it.
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| dirty little filipino boy I'm a Dude Living in Lynnwood | Quote:
sarah's inner cheetah is out this morning.
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| Down the Rabbit Hole I'm a Gentleman Living in Washington | Quote:
My personal values are irrelevant here. She is asking for public opinion on someone who has multiple random sexual encounters. My response here is that it is unsafe and that one should not be surprised to be "labeled" if they engage in said activities. In case it's not obvious, she's already questioning herself in her own head by even posting this thread up. Try taking the question objectively instead of getting wrapped up in it on a personal level. | |
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| tellyourhotfriendtocallme I'm a Lady Living in Auburn |
Once is a lesson... twice a habit?
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| At Banned Camp I'm a Dude Living in seattle | no, once is a learning experience, twice is a moment of weakness, and 3 is a habit
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| tellyourhotfriendtocallme I'm a Lady Living in Auburn | If you are coherent enough to make a sound decision... then it could be habit-forming and not so much "moment of weakness".
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| At Banned Camp I'm a Dude Living in seattle | fair enough..could also be a psychological...depression and what not...
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| miss-communicator |
I guess if I woke up in the morning and thought "oops", probably not a good thing. I for one believe it feels good and my concience doesnt bother me afterwards, I'm okay with it. its definetely something I wouldn't GO LOOKING to do. I also wouldn't be sharing it with anyone else, i'd keep my hotel visits on the downlow. The question i would think is why would you want to have multiple hotel visits while traveling? An accident rendevous is one thing, stalking hotel lobbies is another. Sounds like ur on a mission. I would be taking a long hard look at my personal issues if that's where i kept going in search of sex..
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| Certified Reverend I'm a Guy Living in Tacoma | Mind ya Buisness! Quote:
and heres another good thought, who gives a shit what others think of you. | |
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| Down the Rabbit Hole I'm a Gentleman Living in Washington | Quote:
A girl puts herself in this situation. She has various random sexual encounters because she chooses to, potentially exposes herself to STDs, etc. She makes her decisions and doesn't really think twice about them. Along the way, she decides she wants a "real" relationship. She meets a guy she likes. He likes her so they start dating. He asks about her past and she tells him about it. She tries to do the "but it's my past" thing. Guess what. Her past has come to haunt her unless the guy is willing to accept what she has previously done. So you're probably asking: "Why should it matter to the guy? It's her past. Everyone makes mistakes or does things they regret." That's just it. They weren't mistakes. They were active decisions she made. Does she regret it? That's for her to decide. Did she get an STD along the way? Hopefully for her sake she didn't. If the guy looks beyond it, so be it. If not, then it's something she has to live with. But simply put, people in relationships have the right to know certain things so they can make informed, adult decisions about things that are important to them. If you don't want a "label", then don't do the things that would earn a label being placed on you. You may disagree with the label, but that doesn't mean it doesn't apply. And in this situation I'm using as an example, it's not like it is something that happned 2, 5, or 10 years ago. It's a current situation. It happened, say, 6 weeks ago. 3 months ago. Maybe even a year ago. People do change over time, and no, ancient history shouldn't be held against them. People seemingly have no self-control and then want to gripe and complain when others view them differently because of the decisions they've made. Grow up and take responsibility for yourself. . Last edited by Metonymy; 11-16-2008 at 03:54 PM.. | |
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| Down the Rabbit Hole I'm a Gentleman Living in Washington | |
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| At Banned Camp I'm a Dude Living in seattle |
jason..you're a slut
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| So Amazingly Happy I'm a Lady Living in Lacey, WA | No.. never had. No, you're not a slut if you have. What if - I don't see any real reason to stay in contact since you probably don't live anywhere near each other.
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| Doctor of Love...Ask away I'm a Lady Living in Spokane WA. | Quote:
So re-read I have seen this happen many times with people on travel or in local bars!! I have NEVER taken someone home from a BAR!! I wanted a real life conversation here. A real life question. People place lables ALL THE TIME no matter how you feel you see the Homeless and lable him a loser. So I am an adult in my 30's and I do not date much and I like to observe what is happening out there in the world and question is this NORMAL? So that is why the post... and makes a great story and makes a great stir-up on PNW I guess. AND DIZZLE NO that is NOT WHY I did not see you Friday I was working and left earlier then planned you got the text message!!
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| Litte Mary Sunshine I'm a Girl Living in just this of side of hell | Quote:
yes but you have to have some sort of common sense this is like asking, MY FRIEND HAS AN STD, WHAT SHOULD I..ER MEAN SHE DO. And where did homeless people come into play? Were they at the bar? My suggestion, and again, take my advice, I'm not using it - if you wait for society to tell you what is 'normal' your probably not going to cross the finish line very soon. Jesus, I need to make this my sig line. BE RESPONISBLE FOR YOUR ACTIONS DON'T GIVE A CRAP WHAT ANYONE THINKS OF YOU LET OTHERS LIVE IN PEACE, TIL THEY HURT OTHERS STOP WORRYING ABOUT THINGS THAT HAVEN'T EVEN HAPPENED YET You'll be better off
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| *Will Say What Most Wont* I'm a Guy Living in Willy Wonka`s Chocolate Factory- Down The Hall From The Oompa Loompas |
Damn I wish I was a slut.... I can never actually do it
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| Litte Mary Sunshine I'm a Girl Living in just this of side of hell | AHHH HAA!! See ladies, MOST men are always saying they are this or that. Here Mike is being HONEST!! I love you dude. See that other thread when someone asked why men are db's. Their NOT. They just have tough exteriors. And just FYI, I know my last post came off as bashing and that was not my intention. On the other hand, that's the way I feel and ain't a changing a thing. If someone thought I was a slut, I'd just ask their best freind out to drive the point all the way home. But then again, I'm not a slut. Sluts don't care. Please re-read that last statement
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| *Will Say What Most Wont* I'm a Guy Living in Willy Wonka`s Chocolate Factory- Down The Hall From The Oompa Loompas |
Hey i`ve been called it all Leghumper ( well thats true, i`m good at it) slut whore douch douchbag cunt ( how that works...dunno) I have no problem saying that I could never just sleep around and fuck some random girls.... I have never been that type of guy, but people love to make observations of that about me. Most us guys put up the front that we are badass, but we can be broken down faster than most females, watching daytime soap operas, eating their Ben & jerrys Cookie ookie dough vanilla chunky dunk fudge surprise ice cream and a box of kleenex. I have sadly come to a point in my life ( Yes I know i`m young and act very immature at times) BUT.... The point that I just dont care anymore to try to put a front up with people. and bikenut..... Sluts do care! They are people too ;)
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| Splenda Momma I'm a Female Living in South of King County | |
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| *Will Say What Most Wont* I'm a Guy Living in Willy Wonka`s Chocolate Factory- Down The Hall From The Oompa Loompas | Quote:
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| Doctor of Love...Ask away I'm a Lady Living in Spokane WA. |
Well this was fun I shall think of another one to post....hmmmmm I have been people watching alot so the next one should be just as fun... Thanks all for playing along Dr. Love will come back with more...LOL ![]() ![]() ![]()
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| PNW Love Freshman I'm a Guy Living in Spokane |
I'm in college, its expected!! The real question is, is it a one night stand if you do it again in the morning.....twice
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| Doctor of Love...Ask away I'm a Lady Living in Spokane WA. |
I would say yes it is still with in the first 24hrs!!
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| PNW Love Senior I'm a Dude Living in bremertonapooloza |
Theres a new George Clooney movie about the 'business' traveller. Worth the watch maybe
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| The Force I'm a Guy Living in Seattle |
I enjoyed that movie quite a bit. It's called Up in the Air |
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| Engineer of the Love Boat I'm a Guy Living in One in Washington |
So I travel for work, not a whole lot but at least once or twice a year. If I'm single do I randomly hook up while on a trip? You better f'n believe it, does she spend the night and leave the next morning? Depends, on whether or not I want another round in the morning or she wants to leave. Of course protection will be used and granted that doesn't stop everything but what is so different than meeting someone in a bar or club in your hometown and taking them home. Does this make me a "slut" I could care less. You only live once, why not make the most of it. *This occurs only when I'm single as stated in the OP 1st post. |
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| *Will Say What Most Wont* I'm a Guy Living in Willy Wonka`s Chocolate Factory- Down The Hall From The Oompa Loompas |
^^^^ slut
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| So Amazingly Happy I'm a Lady Living in Lacey, WA |
^^^ slut
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| Engineer of the Love Boat I'm a Guy Living in One in Washington | |
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| *Will Say What Most Wont* I'm a Guy Living in Willy Wonka`s Chocolate Factory- Down The Hall From The Oompa Loompas |
^^^slut
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| So Amazingly Happy I'm a Lady Living in Lacey, WA |
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| *Will Say What Most Wont* I'm a Guy Living in Willy Wonka`s Chocolate Factory- Down The Hall From The Oompa Loompas |
^^^ I wish she were a slut.... damn, atleast a drunk one How am I a slut?!?!? hmmmmmm
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| So Amazingly Happy I'm a Lady Living in Lacey, WA |
^^^I really have no idea. Just fun to say. I think I might have been a drunk slut a time or two.
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| *Will Say What Most Wont* I'm a Guy Living in Willy Wonka`s Chocolate Factory- Down The Hall From The Oompa Loompas | def. are a fun drunk... Ill give ya that
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| PNW Love Senior I'm a Dude Living in bremertonapooloza |
If you kept the receipts and tried to ride the affair off as a business expense.... you might be a whore . Slut does it for fun and free/ Whore gets paid. Yes that applies to men too.
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| *Will Say What Most Wont* I'm a Guy Living in Willy Wonka`s Chocolate Factory- Down The Hall From The Oompa Loompas |
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| Engineer of the Love Boat I'm a Guy Living in One in Washington | |
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| PNW Love Senior I'm a Dude Living in bremertonapooloza |
There should always be standards in sex. Just because a metro man down in seattle or a bremaloo out in silverdale props me for a quickee doesnt mean I am gonna jump at it. I wont see Adeli for six months, but I am notta gonna jump on a grenade just to get nooky I am a sexual camel
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| Engineer of the Love Boat I'm a Guy Living in One in Washington | Quote:
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| Down the Rabbit Hole I'm a Gentleman Living in Washington | |
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| miss-communicator |
Trying to get a trip over in the works- I need to get a class in and my instructor was going to come here and have it, but I've asked to take it over there so I have an excuse. I will keep you updated, as I will definetly expect breakfast at beths---or wherever.
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