Why is it...

Metonymy · 11-02-2008, 12:56 AM

... when you finally find someone that you're interested in, they all seem to come out of the woodworks?

Seriously. What's up with this feast or famine thing?

I have this one girl that I like, things are going along just fine, and now "getting attention" seems like it's effortless, and I'm not even trying.

I really hate the way this works. And what I hate even more are all those "it happens when you're not looking" and "it happens when you aren't trying" sayings.

Anyone care to enlighten me why this happens this way?

DJ Nathan V · 11-02-2008, 01:02 AM

I wish I knew.

beansbaxter · 11-02-2008, 01:12 AM

I'd say put your energy into moving forward, granted that's easier said than done. If she was really the one, than she would have appreciated your efforts but if she cant recognize it and want to look elsewhere, you gotta just move on.

But what do I know... that's my pennies worth cause I cant even give two cents.

Mikercw · 11-02-2008, 01:23 AM

Crazy how that is, huh?

dizzle · 11-02-2008, 06:53 AM

your persona changes when you get involved with a relationship.

you're not longer trying to find someone, so your interactions with the opposite sex are different then they were before you got involved.

Washingtonblonde · 11-02-2008, 08:46 AM

Who doesn't this happen to? I think that people can sense your confidence and happiness which are naturally attractive qualities in a person.

JuiceBox · 11-02-2008, 09:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Washingtonblonde

Who doesn't this happen to?

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Washingtonblonde · 11-02-2008, 12:29 PM

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There's a reason for that.. but it's Sunday and I feel like being nice.

Mikercw · 11-02-2008, 04:06 PM

Who really cares?

Mikercw · 11-02-2008, 04:06 PM

Fuck it....Play them all

dizzle · 11-02-2008, 04:11 PM

only if you got the skills to play them all.

not every guy is smart like me and you mike.

JuiceBox · 11-02-2008, 04:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Washingtonblonde

There's a reason for that.. but it's Sunday and I feel like being nice.

you know....i haven't seen you be mean once

dizzle · 11-02-2008, 04:16 PM

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Originally Posted by JuiceBox

you know....i haven't seen you be mean once

it's not possible.

i could call her a fast ass bitch and she'd be like, "haha you're funny diz".

it's impossible to make her upset.

Mikercw · 11-02-2008, 04:21 PM

Oh it is.... i`m sure I can do it

Washingtonblonde · 11-02-2008, 05:21 PM

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Originally Posted by dizzle

it's not possible.

i could call her a fast ass bitch and she'd be like, "haha you're funny diz".

it's impossible to make her upset.

Why would that upset me? Have you seen me ride? I AM fast!

JuiceBox · 11-02-2008, 05:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Washingtonblonde

Why would that upset me? Have you seen me ride? I AM fast!

what does riding, and having a fat ass have to do with each other

Washingtonblonde · 11-02-2008, 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by JuiceBox

what does riding, and having a fat ass have to do with each other

Dude.. you read what you wanted. He said FAST, not fat! And if he called me a fat ass bitch, I'd call him out because I'm not a bitch.. but I'd agree to the fat part.

And yes.. it's hard to make me mad.. Easy to hurt me though.

JuiceBox · 11-02-2008, 05:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Washingtonblonde

Dude.. you read what you wanted. He said FAST, not fat! And if he called me a fat ass bitch, I'd call him out because I'm not a bitch.. but I'd agree to the fat part.

And yes.. it's hard to make me mad.. Easy to hurt me though.

pretty sure his finger slipped on that one....

dizzle · 11-02-2008, 05:32 PM

my finger always slips ;)

dizzle · 11-02-2008, 05:33 PM

and yes i meant fat ass bitch sarah.

you're not fat, you're pleasantly plump and i love it.

plus you give great kisses.

Washingtonblonde · 11-02-2008, 05:33 PM

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Originally Posted by dizzle

my finger always slips ;)

Haha.. "Whoops"

dizzle · 11-02-2008, 05:52 PM

booya!

JuiceBox · 11-02-2008, 05:56 PM

chocolate finger?

dizzle · 11-02-2008, 05:58 PM

i suddenly just lost my appetite.

Washingtonblonde · 11-02-2008, 06:01 PM

According to UD it's 2 chocolate fingers..

I was referring more to the sport of bowling...

JuiceBox · 11-02-2008, 06:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Washingtonblonde

According to UD it's 2 chocolate fingers..

I was referring more to the sport of bowling...

i'm sure you could make it a sport...probably just need to borrow kids slip and slide

Bikenut · 11-02-2008, 06:56 PM

actually it's because you let your guard down and are not so obsessed, for the lack of a better word, about finding someone and it shows. After reading some inane posts, that's all I have to offer

JuiceBox · 11-02-2008, 07:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Bikenut

actually it's because you let your guard down and are not so obsessed, for the lack of a better word, about finding someone and it shows. After reading some inane posts, that's all I have to offer

hey, my posts are quality thank you very much

Mikercw · 11-02-2008, 07:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Bikenut

After reading some inane posts, that's all I have to offer

Insane..... they were helpful to someone and thats all we care about

Bikenut · 11-02-2008, 07:31 PM

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Originally Posted by JuiceBox

hey, my posts are quality thank you very much

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Originally Posted by Mikercw

Insane..... they were helpful to someone and thats all we care about

your both dorks

Mikercw · 11-02-2008, 07:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Bikenut

your both dorks

Ok? And your point would be what again?

Bikenut · 11-02-2008, 07:37 PM

*sigh*

Mikercw · 11-02-2008, 07:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Bikenut

*sigh*

Exactly.... Kthxbai

Case Closed

Next

Bikenut · 11-02-2008, 07:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Mikercw

Who really cares?

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Originally Posted by Mikercw

Fuck it....Play them all

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Originally Posted by Mikercw

Exactly.... Kthxbai

Case Closed

Next

wow. I have one question and please feel free to pm me. but what the fuck did I ever to do you to exact this kind of response. I take it your not happy. Ok. I got that from previous posts. If your joking, fine. If you feel that kind of animosity, go for it. I think your a great guy and if want to take a swipe at me go for it. But know, friend, or maybe not, if you want to call me out, I am sitting right here. Go for it. I'll F5 and would be MORE than happy to discuss anything your heart desires in PM's.

Mikercw · 11-02-2008, 08:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Bikenut

wow. I have one question and please feel free to pm me. but what the fuck did I ever to do you to exact this kind of response. I take it your not happy. Ok. I got that from previous posts. If your joking, fine. If you feel that kind of animosity, go for it. I think your a great guy and if want to take a swipe at me go for it. But know, friend, or maybe not, if you want to call me out, I am sitting right here. Go for it. I'll F5 and would be MORE than happy to discuss anything your heart desires in PM's.

No need for Pm`s
Those first two responses are not even close to be directed to you, or anything that you have said.
the last one was saying that ya didnt have a point in calling us dorks...

So that would mean that yes I was fucking with you...Mentally and physically...if you will

Bikenut · 11-02-2008, 08:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Mikercw

No need for Pm`s
Those first two responses are not even close to be directed to you, or anything that you have said.
the last one was saying that ya didnt have a point in calling us dorks...

So that would mean that yes I was fucking with you...Mentally and physically...if you will

gotcha ya

Mikercw · 11-02-2008, 08:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Bikenut

gotcha ya

I`m just in a shitty mood....i`m going to go drink now kthx

Love ya Hun

Cooley · 11-04-2008, 03:21 AM

Hey look, an on topic post!

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Originally Posted by Washingtonblonde

Who doesn't this happen to? I think that people can sense your confidence and happiness which are naturally attractive qualities in a person.

also people tend to want what they can't have...

Mikercw · 11-04-2008, 11:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Cooley

Hey look, an on topic post!

also people tend to want what they can't have...

Shut It!

Cooley · 11-04-2008, 07:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Mikercw

Shut It!

K...

11-02-2008, 12:56 AM	#1
Metonymy Down the Rabbit Hole I'm a Gentleman Living in Washington	Why is it... ... when you finally find someone that you're interested in, they all seem to come out of the woodworks? Seriously. What's up with this feast or famine thing? I have this one girl that I like, things are going along just fine, and now "getting attention" seems like it's effortless, and I'm not even trying. I really hate the way this works. And what I hate even more are all those "it happens when you're not looking" and "it happens when you aren't trying" sayings. Anyone care to enlighten me why this happens this way?

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11-02-2008, 01:02 AM	#2
DJ Nathan V M0DERAT0R I'm a Gentleman Living in Auburn, WA	I wish I knew.

11-02-2008, 01:12 AM	#3
beansbaxter Site Admin I'm a Guy Living in Seattle	I'd say put your energy into moving forward, granted that's easier said than done. If she was really the one, than she would have appreciated your efforts but if she cant recognize it and want to look elsewhere, you gotta just move on. But what do I know... that's my pennies worth cause I cant even give two cents.

11-02-2008, 01:23 AM	#4
Mikercw I TELL IT LIKE IT IS!!!! I'm a Guy Living in Willy Wonka`s Chocolate Factory- Down The Hall From The Oompa Loompas Looking for Conversation Interested in Women Humor is Dry/Sarcastic Have a Trendy fashion style	Crazy how that is, huh?

11-02-2008, 06:53 AM	#5
dizzle Surprize! I'm a Dude Living in Newcastle Looking for Networking Interested in Women Humor is Clever/Quick-witted Have a Trendy fashion style	your persona changes when you get involved with a relationship. you're not longer trying to find someone, so your interactions with the opposite sex are different then they were before you got involved.

11-02-2008, 08:46 AM	#6
Washingtonblonde So Amazingly Happy I'm a Lady Living in Lacey, WA	Who doesn't this happen to? I think that people can sense your confidence and happiness which are naturally attractive qualities in a person.

11-02-2008, 04:06 PM	#9
Mikercw I TELL IT LIKE IT IS!!!! I'm a Guy Living in Willy Wonka`s Chocolate Factory- Down The Hall From The Oompa Loompas Looking for Conversation Interested in Women Humor is Dry/Sarcastic Have a Trendy fashion style	Who really cares?

11-02-2008, 04:11 PM	#11
dizzle Surprize! I'm a Dude Living in Newcastle Looking for Networking Interested in Women Humor is Clever/Quick-witted Have a Trendy fashion style	only if you got the skills to play them all. not every guy is smart like me and you mike.

11-02-2008, 04:21 PM	#14
Mikercw I TELL IT LIKE IT IS!!!! I'm a Guy Living in Willy Wonka`s Chocolate Factory- Down The Hall From The Oompa Loompas Looking for Conversation Interested in Women Humor is Dry/Sarcastic Have a Trendy fashion style	Oh it is.... i`m sure I can do it

11-02-2008, 05:32 PM	#19
dizzle Surprize! I'm a Dude Living in Newcastle Looking for Networking Interested in Women Humor is Clever/Quick-witted Have a Trendy fashion style	my finger always slips ;)

11-02-2008, 05:33 PM	#20
dizzle Surprize! I'm a Dude Living in Newcastle Looking for Networking Interested in Women Humor is Clever/Quick-witted Have a Trendy fashion style	and yes i meant fat ass bitch sarah. you're not fat, you're pleasantly plump and i love it. plus you give great kisses.

11-02-2008, 05:52 PM	#22
dizzle Surprize! I'm a Dude Living in Newcastle Looking for Networking Interested in Women Humor is Clever/Quick-witted Have a Trendy fashion style	booya!

11-02-2008, 05:56 PM	#23
JuiceBox At Banned Camp I'm a Dude Living in seattle	chocolate finger?

11-02-2008, 05:58 PM	#24
dizzle Surprize! I'm a Dude Living in Newcastle Looking for Networking Interested in Women Humor is Clever/Quick-witted Have a Trendy fashion style	i suddenly just lost my appetite.

11-02-2008, 06:01 PM	#25
Washingtonblonde So Amazingly Happy I'm a Lady Living in Lacey, WA	According to UD it's 2 chocolate fingers.. I was referring more to the sport of bowling...

11-02-2008, 06:56 PM	#27
Bikenut Litte Mary Sunshine I'm a Girl Living in just this of side of hell	actually it's because you let your guard down and are not so obsessed, for the lack of a better word, about finding someone and it shows. After reading some inane posts, that's all I have to offer

11-02-2008, 07:37 PM	#32
Bikenut Litte Mary Sunshine I'm a Girl Living in just this of side of hell	sigh