Mikercw

So I got this on my past "relationship" inquire.......

I was busy so was she....so because we were not talking, she says"
"I don't think you care about this relationship, as much as I do"

Question for the girls:
Cut your loss and move on
Or try to rationalize the topic with her
Or something else

TeashaMae

Sounds kinda drama to me. I'd talk to her and see why she feels that...but I would probably bail after that. I'm a busy girl and I need someone to understand that, and just cause I don't see you everyday, or call you everyday doesn't mean I don't care, just means I'm busy.

As you can see...I don't stick around much for crap

Mikercw

[QUOTE=TeashaMae;3699]Sounds kinda drama to me. I'd talk to her and see why she feels that...but I would probably bail after that. I'm a busy girl and I need someone to understand that, and just cause I don't see you everyday, or call you everyday doesn't mean I don't care, just means I'm busy.
/QUOTE]
Wow... You are reading my mind
To everything I did say to her.... She didn't understand that I guess

DJ Nathan V

Sounds like she's starting drama without offering a solution. Try to talk it out or cut your losses.

JuiceBox

what the hell does it mean when someone cares about a relationship more than the other person in the relationship?

sounds like drama to me. how does one care more or less about a relationship? i can't quantify caring in a relationship personally...

Jet City Angel

It kinda sounds like there was a build-up to her reaction. I mean, did this statement just come out of the blue? Or, has there been other things going on the relationship causing either or both of you to pull away? For example, if you've been pulling away from her for some time (for whatever reason), the fact of you two "not talking" may have added to her doubts about the relationship status and prompted her question.

I don't think it's fair to deep-six a partner just because of one lousy statement. If that's the standard, we're all screwed.

If she truly is a good woman and a great partner for you, and someone you'd like to get to know better, then I say you two should hear each other out. If she is not a true compatible mate for you (which is why you might have been pulling away if that is the case), then that would be the reason for you to move on, not because of one instance of her being human.

Rockerchic

hmmm, well was it always like that? did you guys used to do a bunch of stuff and hang out often- then one day just stop? or never really hung out and it was normal routine? Did she ask for more time, attention etc?

I just mentioned to the last guy that I was feeling a bit ignored- but only because he went from talking to me all the time, randomly stopping in to see me etc...then it just ceased. So yeah I mentioned something....and then I got dumped hahahaha

Mikercw

Drama Exactly
Right outta the blue.... She said goes I was not responding back to her texts (which I was) and that "I" never called....Hmm dont phones work both ways?

We never did "A-lot" of things together, since she lived some distance away and I was the one traveling to her place. but for like three weeks we never got together, I got the run around with her almost every time I asked and she asked ONCE and I already had plans.
She asked for more Attention...but to be able to do that around her schedule or mine was hard. Again she straight out said that I didn't care enough... I asked her was she a mind reader?

Washingtonblonde

Either drama or she's looking for the easy way out.

Mikercw