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Old 10-30-2008, 11:13 AM   #1
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Question Bad Kissers?

What do you do about them? I'm not in a situation where I'm faced with this, but have in the past and wondered what others did.

Do you bail?
Do you try and help?
Do you stick around if you like the person enough?

I've always bailed....Discuss.
 
Old 10-30-2008, 11:17 AM   #2
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I would totally bail... Usually a kiss comes early on so I haven't really formed any sort of attachment to the person.

Now if it was someone that I had been chasing for quite some time.. then I'd stick around and see if I couldn't rectify the situation.
 
Old 10-30-2008, 11:18 AM   #3
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Bad kissers are the worst. Some don't want to get better either. I mentioned how they kissed to an ex once and she said that was what she liked so she was sticking to it.

I suppose everyone has a manner of preferences to some degree but there are limits.
 
Old 10-30-2008, 11:33 AM   #4
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I've bailed a couple times. I like kissing so if you're bad at it (at this age) you're probably not going to get any better. I don't like the kisses where I feel that a big dog just licked my face, or the ones where I feel like they are too overpowering and try to eat my face up, and don't like the ones where I feel my tongue is going to swell up either... it's got to be somewhere in between.
 
Old 10-30-2008, 11:43 AM   #5
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Bail and post about it?? well, pm..? lol, for reallys though. I can only say I've bailed in the past but none of them struck me as some one I wanted to spend huge amounts of time with anyhow.
 
Old 10-30-2008, 11:45 AM   #6
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Bail and post about it?? well, pm..? lol, for reallys though. I can only say I've bailed in the past but none of them struck me as some one I wanted to spend huge amounts of time with anyhow.
huh? Yeah, I'll post I bailed Generally its not something I've put a huge amount of time or effort into...but then again, when have I? (that wasn't very nice)

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Old 10-30-2008, 11:51 AM   #7
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bad kissers just need a good teacher.
 
Old 10-30-2008, 12:19 PM   #8
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or the ones where I feel like they are too overpowering and try to eat my face up, and don't like the ones where I feel my tongue is going to swell up either
saw an act like this going on in a bar once....i wasn't sure who was going to win

about bad kissers needing a good teacher... you can't teach people that aren't capable of learning
 
Old 10-30-2008, 12:34 PM   #9
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Bad kiss what's that?

A person kisses the way they kiss. If they kiss you in a way you don't like how are they supposed to know if you don't tell them?

Same for sex. You gotta talk to your partner about what you like and don't like.

Now if you've told them what you don't like and they insist on doing it. Well then, I'd move on.
 
Old 10-30-2008, 12:44 PM   #10
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saw an act like this going on in a bar once....i wasn't sure who was going to win
 
Old 10-30-2008, 12:54 PM   #11
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glad you caught that....i was beginning to worry
 
Old 10-30-2008, 01:26 PM   #12
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i swear I didn't divorce my husband for his kissing qualities (although the thought crossed my mind a time or 2) but unfortunetly, it meant not a lot of kissing for me and I <3 XX'ING
 
Old 10-30-2008, 03:38 PM   #13
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Thumbs up

True that..........
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bad kissers just need a good teacher.
 
Old 10-30-2008, 03:48 PM   #14
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i`m guilty of flat out telling a girl that she couldn't kiss..... Actually she was so bad I called it a night, never bothered after that..... Well it didn't help that she was not all there in the head either, but thats a different story
 
Old 10-31-2008, 07:58 AM   #15
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i`m guilty of flat out telling a girl that she couldn't kiss..... Actually she was so bad I called it a night, never bothered after that..... Well it didn't help that she was not all there in the head either, but thats a different story
no no, same story, keep going.
 
Old 10-31-2008, 08:00 AM   #16
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i`m guilty of flat out telling a girl that she couldn't kiss..... Actually she was so bad I called it a night, never bothered after that..... Well it didn't help that she was not all there in the head either, but thats a different story
Motorcyclebabe??
 
Old 10-31-2008, 08:18 AM   #17
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bad kissers just need a good teacher.


depends on the situation for me. When I met my boyfriend he was awful (but then again, I was his first kiss so that's understandable)...and I just showed him the ropes and now his kisses are custom tailored to how I like them

I suppose bad habits of kissing can be corrected...you just have to be honest about it and eventually they will be tailored to you.. but I think that only really applies if you really like someone and want to be with them. If you're just making out with someone for shits and giggles and they suck...that's a whole new story...I wouldn't want to waste my time and would definitely bail out on that.
 
Old 10-31-2008, 11:07 AM   #18
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no no, same story, keep going.
Put it this way, she grabbed the steering wheel and almost made me crash.
Screamed at some "homeless" guy to get outta the street (Yes I laughed)
Would talk about how she was raped and liked it and wanted it done again...

That was about the end of the evening....
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Motorcyclebabe??
Oh god!!! HELL NO
Driving that crazy bitch to the docks was hard enough
 
Old 10-31-2008, 11:09 AM   #19
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When I met my boyfriend he was awful (but then again, I was his first kiss so that's understandable)...
Awww.... Poor Byron
 
Old 10-31-2008, 11:09 AM   #20
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Oh god!!! HELL NO
Driving that crazy bitch to the docks was hard enough
I'm glad that she went with you instead of me then...
 
Old 10-31-2008, 11:11 AM   #21
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I'm glad that she went with you instead of me then...
I wanted to stop and get duct tape and tape her hands behind her back and mouth closed
 
Old 10-31-2008, 11:43 AM   #22
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I wanted to stop and get duct tape and tape her hands behind her back and mouth closed
I was on the bike that night, so talking would have been kept to a minimum.
 
Old 10-31-2008, 11:44 AM   #23
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Awww.... Poor Byron
I only speak the truth
 
Old 10-31-2008, 02:04 PM   #24
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I've dated a few bad kissers. Tried to teach them a thing or two.

It generally doesn't work though.

And given how much I like to kiss, if it's bad, it's pretty much a no-go.
 
Old 01-04-2010, 08:15 AM   #25
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Well the ex didnt like the way I kissed.... after 14 years she tells me this. Not one word before. talk about passive aggressive pent up. Apparently when I was on deployment she met someone that obviously kisses differently. They deserve each other.

Funny there is a theme there, everytime we have a little war and I get deployed, when I come back, I gets dumped. I guess #3 will be the lucky one, cuz I am out of the military now.
 
Old 06-06-2013, 07:14 PM   #26
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My current boyfriend can kiss just fine quickly, but when it comes to making out its a whole different story!

Don't say it's a no-go with a bad kisser, just make the most of their hugs

-and of course try to teach them a thing or two in a nice and flirty way-
 
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