Bad Kissers?

TeashaMae · 10-30-2008, 11:13 AM

What do you do about them? I'm not in a situation where I'm faced with this, but have in the past and wondered what others did.

Do you bail?
Do you try and help?
Do you stick around if you like the person enough?

I've always bailed....Discuss.

Washingtonblonde · 10-30-2008, 11:17 AM

I would totally bail... Usually a kiss comes early on so I haven't really formed any sort of attachment to the person.

Now if it was someone that I had been chasing for quite some time.. then I'd stick around and see if I couldn't rectify the situation.

DJ Nathan V · 10-30-2008, 11:18 AM

Bad kissers are the worst. Some don't want to get better either. I mentioned how they kissed to an ex once and she said that was what she liked so she was sticking to it.

I suppose everyone has a manner of preferences to some degree but there are limits.

elaine · 10-30-2008, 11:33 AM

I've bailed a couple times. I like kissing so if you're bad at it (at this age) you're probably not going to get any better. I don't like the kisses where I feel that a big dog just licked my face, or the ones where I feel like they are too overpowering and try to eat my face up, and don't like the ones where I feel my tongue is going to swell up either... it's got to be somewhere in between.

Cooley · 10-30-2008, 11:43 AM

Bail and post about it?? well, pm..? lol, for reallys though. I can only say I've bailed in the past but none of them struck me as some one I wanted to spend huge amounts of time with anyhow.

TeashaMae · 10-30-2008, 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Cooley

Bail and post about it?? well, pm..? lol, for reallys though. I can only say I've bailed in the past but none of them struck me as some one I wanted to spend huge amounts of time with anyhow.

huh? Yeah, I'll post I bailed

Generally its not something I've put a huge amount of time or effort into...but then again, when have I?

(that wasn't very nice)

vivid · 10-30-2008, 11:51 AM

bad kissers just need a good teacher.

JuiceBox · 10-30-2008, 12:19 PM

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Originally Posted by elaine

or the ones where I feel like they are too overpowering and try to eat my face up, and don't like the ones where I feel my tongue is going to swell up either

saw an act like this going on in a bar once....i wasn't sure who was going to win

about bad kissers needing a good teacher... you can't teach people that aren't capable of learning

evander · 10-30-2008, 12:34 PM

Bad kiss what's that?

A person kisses the way they kiss. If they kiss you in a way you don't like how are they supposed to know if you don't tell them?

Same for sex. You gotta talk to your partner about what you like and don't like.

Now if you've told them what you don't like and they insist on doing it. Well then, I'd move on.

Washingtonblonde · 10-30-2008, 12:44 PM

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Originally Posted by JuiceBox

saw an act like this going on in a bar once....i wasn't sure who was going to win

JuiceBox · 10-30-2008, 12:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Washingtonblonde

glad you caught that....i was beginning to worry

Rockerchic · 10-30-2008, 01:26 PM

i swear I didn't divorce my husband for his kissing qualities (although the thought crossed my mind a time or 2) but unfortunetly, it meant not a lot of kissing for me and I <3 XX'ING

wingman · 10-30-2008, 03:38 PM

True that..........

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Originally Posted by vivid

bad kissers just need a good teacher.

Mikercw · 10-30-2008, 03:48 PM

i`m guilty of flat out telling a girl that she couldn't kiss..... Actually she was so bad I called it a night, never bothered after that..... Well it didn't help that she was not all there in the head either, but thats a different story

Cooley · 10-31-2008, 07:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Mikercw

i`m guilty of flat out telling a girl that she couldn't kiss..... Actually she was so bad I called it a night, never bothered after that..... Well it didn't help that she was not all there in the head either, but thats a different story

no no, same story, keep going.

Washingtonblonde · 10-31-2008, 08:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Mikercw

i`m guilty of flat out telling a girl that she couldn't kiss..... Actually she was so bad I called it a night, never bothered after that..... Well it didn't help that she was not all there in the head either, but thats a different story

Motorcyclebabe??

Oxygen · 10-31-2008, 08:18 AM

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Originally Posted by vivid

bad kissers just need a good teacher.

depends on the situation for me. When I met my boyfriend he was awful (but then again, I was his first kiss so that's understandable)...and I just showed him the ropes and now his kisses are custom tailored to how I like them

I suppose bad habits of kissing can be corrected...you just have to be honest about it and eventually they will be tailored to you.. but I think that only really applies if you really like someone and want to be with them. If you're just making out with someone for shits and giggles and they suck...that's a whole new story...I wouldn't want to waste my time and would definitely bail out on that.

Mikercw · 10-31-2008, 11:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Cooley

no no, same story, keep going.

Put it this way, she grabbed the steering wheel and almost made me crash.
Screamed at some "homeless" guy to get outta the street (Yes I laughed)
Would talk about how she was raped and liked it and wanted it done again...

That was about the end of the evening....

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Originally Posted by Washingtonblonde

Motorcyclebabe??

Oh god!!! HELL NO
Driving that crazy bitch to the docks was hard enough

Mikercw · 10-31-2008, 11:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Oxygen

When I met my boyfriend he was awful (but then again, I was his first kiss so that's understandable)...

Awww.... Poor Byron

CForce · 10-31-2008, 11:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Mikercw

Oh god!!! HELL NO
Driving that crazy bitch to the docks was hard enough

I'm glad that she went with you instead of me then...

Mikercw · 10-31-2008, 11:11 AM

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Originally Posted by CForce

I'm glad that she went with you instead of me then...

I wanted to stop and get duct tape and tape her hands behind her back and mouth closed

CForce · 10-31-2008, 11:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Mikercw

I wanted to stop and get duct tape and tape her hands behind her back and mouth closed

I was on the bike that night, so talking would have been kept to a minimum.

Oxygen · 10-31-2008, 11:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Mikercw

Awww.... Poor Byron

I only speak the truth

Metonymy · 10-31-2008, 02:04 PM

I've dated a few bad kissers. Tried to teach them a thing or two.

It generally doesn't work though.

And given how much I like to kiss, if it's bad, it's pretty much a no-go.

cityxslicker · 01-04-2010, 08:15 AM

Well the ex didnt like the way I kissed.... after 14 years she tells me this. Not one word before. talk about passive aggressive pent up. Apparently when I was on deployment she met someone that obviously kisses differently. They deserve each other.

Funny there is a theme there, everytime we have a little war and I get deployed, when I come back, I gets dumped. I guess #3 will be the lucky one, cuz I am out of the military now.

10-30-2008, 11:33 AM	#4
elaine tellyourhotfriendtocallme I'm a Lady Living in Auburn	I've bailed a couple times. I like kissing so if you're bad at it (at this age) you're probably not going to get any better. I don't like the kisses where I feel that a big dog just licked my face, or the ones where I feel like they are too overpowering and try to eat my face up, and don't like the ones where I feel my tongue is going to swell up either... it's got to be somewhere in between. __________________ If you want a submissive woman... GO TO BURGER KING; where you CAN have it your way! Here's some toilet paper coz you're being an ass.

10-30-2008, 01:26 PM	#12
Rockerchic miss-communicator I'm a Female Living in spokane Blog Entries: 6	i swear I didn't divorce my husband for his kissing qualities (although the thought crossed my mind a time or 2) but unfortunetly, it meant not a lot of kissing for me and I <3 XX'ING __________________ Never confuse movement with action.

10-30-2008, 03:48 PM	#14
Mikercw I TELL IT LIKE IT IS!!!! I'm a Guy Living in Willy Wonka`s Chocolate Factory- Down The Hall From The Oompa Loompas	i`m guilty of flat out telling a girl that she couldn't kiss..... Actually she was so bad I called it a night, never bothered after that..... Well it didn't help that she was not all there in the head either, but thats a different story __________________ DISCLAIMER: I WILL say or do things you may not like. DO NOT get all butt hurt over it. If you have a problem. SAY SOMETHING Women want to ask my opinion... But they may never want my answer

01-04-2010, 08:15 AM	#25
cityxslicker PNW Love Member I'm a Dude Living in bremertonapooloza Blog Entries: 1	Well the ex didnt like the way I kissed.... after 14 years she tells me this. Not one word before. talk about passive aggressive pent up. Apparently when I was on deployment she met someone that obviously kisses differently. They deserve each other. Funny there is a theme there, everytime we have a little war and I get deployed, when I come back, I gets dumped. I guess #3 will be the lucky one, cuz I am out of the military now. __________________ Something pithy, sarcastic and rather opinionated... just waiting for the inspiration.

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10-30-2008, 11:17 AM	#2
Washingtonblonde So Amazingly Happy I'm a Lady Living in Lacey, WA	I would totally bail... Usually a kiss comes early on so I haven't really formed any sort of attachment to the person. Now if it was someone that I had been chasing for quite some time.. then I'd stick around and see if I couldn't rectify the situation.

10-30-2008, 11:51 AM	#7
vivid vibrantly vivacious I'm a Girl Living in seattle,wa	bad kissers just need a good teacher.

10-30-2008, 12:34 PM	#9
evander is on lifes journey I'm a Guy Living in Spokane and loving it Blog Entries: 2	Bad kiss what's that? A person kisses the way they kiss. If they kiss you in a way you don't like how are they supposed to know if you don't tell them? Same for sex. You gotta talk to your partner about what you like and don't like. Now if you've told them what you don't like and they insist on doing it. Well then, I'd move on.

10-31-2008, 02:04 PM	#24
Metonymy Down the Rabbit Hole I'm a Gentleman Living in Washington	I've dated a few bad kissers. Tried to teach them a thing or two. It generally doesn't work though. And given how much I like to kiss, if it's bad, it's pretty much a no-go.