wingman

Women,or men what do you find least attractive in the other that isn't a physical trait?

Plummy

The nervous laugh. Same sex, opposite sex, just anyone in general. Drives me up a wall.

Oh, and heavy breathers. I can not and will not ever be with someone who is a heavy nose breather. Like to the point you can hear the hairs flapping in their hurricane force nose winds. Nuh-uh.

Washingtonblonde

^^^^^LOL..

I don't like those that put others down or think they are so much better than others.

Missy

Least attractive non-physical trait......would monotone work? I eventually zone out while they are talking

elaine

Guys without a backbone... who are pushovers and who are the "i don't know what do you want to do" types... that crap annoys me

elaine

What's with all the one word subjects? Just put your whole question in there.

Cooley

I can't stand it when someone can't talk about anyone but the person in the mirror. Gets real bad when it's all shallow comments.

Cooley

wingman

Does that bother you?

Plummy

It gets kinda hard to remember the subject matter of the thread.

wingman

Hmmmm.....

JuiceBox

yes.... hmmmmmmmm

CForce

I'd prefer full subject lines. The one word doesn't really convey the meaning, and there are so many of them that I'm getting less likely to click them.

JuiceBox

also, please stop using bold blue text while we're lodgin complaints. this is a forum, not myspace. kthxbai

CStyle

If you are unjustly rude towards customer service people or old people....I probably won't be friends with you, let alone date you. You can tell a whole lot about a person depending on how they treat others, especially those of a different social standing.

mamarach

Laziness and/or an aversion to manual labor. The ex thought he didn't need to work because money was going to fall from the sky into his lap. He also thought any kind of work that, you know, involved work, was beneath him.

CStyle

Hey I have a huge aversion to manual labor...that is why I went to college! Im pretty sure I have made more money than just about anyone I know who does manual labor.

Washingtonblonde

ESPECIALLY old people!!! UGH!

mamarach

Yes, but the ex included in manual labor everything from taking out the trash to getting off his butt to get any kind of job (since, y'know, actually walking out to the car to drive to an interview was kinda like manual labor to him). I like college educations, but sometimes you really just gotta do some work. I say this as someone who comes from a family of scientists and college professors. I grew up around men who had cushy, brainy jobs, but who could still come home and fix everything that needed fixing and do cool stuff like build tree houses in the woods for us kids.

Jet City Angel

Someone who is constantly whiney or a perpetual victim ... woe's me, woe's me, poor, poor pitiful me ... all the time. (Distinguished from the occasional grumpy session when you've had a bad day.)

TeashaMae

Eye wanderers....if you don't want to be here, then fook'n leave, but don't be disrespectful. And a huge to Jet City Angels comment about whiners or those that have a chip on their shoulder and think the world owe em summin...

Qtip

No self confidence, can't stand that.

DJ Nathan V

Addiction to something. A drug of any kind (incl tobacco, alcohol, illicit, or prescription) or a video game or... any type of similar dependency. Instant turn-off.

vivid

(except for motorcycles of course)

also immaturity and someone unwilling to take resposibility for their own actions.

DJ Nathan V

I practically live on my bike since it's how I get everywhere but at the same time I can choose not to ride for pleasure if it's a problem. It might be hard to give up speeding on it though.

PS: 'responsibility'

Mikercw

crazy

Rev G

I hate it if i cant hold a conversation with a girl. If i have to constantly explain what a words means that i just used, air headed/ no common sense people. Makes me want to punch myself in the face, it would feel better then trying to converse with them.